Archive for April, 2010

The successful black woman hits media again!

Tuesday, April 27th, 2010

The glamorous independent woman – the successful black woman and her search for love has hit the news yet again! The whatTH time this year? We all know the stats – this glam squad makes up for 71 percent of black graduate students. And most of them are single. And when ABC’s Nightline decided to [...]

Keeping secrets: should it be a deal breaker?

Wednesday, April 21st, 2010

Some time back, I posted the article “Should you keep secrets from your partner?” Well this prompted one of the blog readers to post a question about what is going through in her life. Kindly have a read and help. My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost 2 years. He asked me [...]

Men aren’t about looks but about feeling

Wednesday, April 14th, 2010

Looks are everything to a man. That is what we women believe. It’s the reason we spend huge chunks of our salaries on cosmetics, surgeries… It’s the reason most of us have self esteem issues. We think looks is the weapon we can use to hold on to the men we love. We all want [...]

Online dating: Men’s strategy

Saturday, April 10th, 2010

Are you wondering why this guy you met online suddenly stops corresponding with you? Dating coach Evan Marc Katz tells women how men date online. Is this the strategy men employ?

Jill Scott’s spirit winces at black-white dating

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

My new friend is handsome, African-American, intelligent and seemingly wealthy. He is an athlete, loves his momma, and is happily married to a White woman. I admit when I saw his wedding ring, I privately hoped. But something in me just knew he didn’t marry a sister. Although my guess hit the mark, when my [...]