Archive for July, 2009

What’s the story behind mismatched couples?

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

Why are those two together? Everyone knows at least one couple that makes that question escape their breath. Great guy and a bi*** from hell, good mannered gal with some ill-mannered ghetto boy, beauty and beast …you just can’t understand what kind of drug or hypnosis one of them was on when they hooked up. [...]

Is sex worth laboring for?

Tuesday, July 21st, 2009

I am busy minding my business having my glass wine and beside me, a group of loud hard-to-ignore, obviously inebriated women heatedly discussing their sex lives. Apparently, they are all married and their sex lives are not only boring but downright disastrous. And the weird bit about it is, they blame it on their husbands. [...]

Beauty or breeding racism?

Friday, July 17th, 2009

Colorism has plagued this nation since God knows when. There is a common belief that light skin is beautiful, means more opportunities, better jobs, more respect, acknowledgement and better treatment from society. Some Black women bleach themselves so they can ‘beautiful’. Having looked up the word beautiful, there is no mention of ‘color’ in the [...]

Are Black women more likely to be single?

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

Statistics show that compared with white women, black women are twice as likely to be single. Have you met this woman? She has a good job, works hard, earns a good salary. She went to college, got her master’s degree; she is intelligent. She is personable, articulate, well read, interested in everybody and everything. Yet, [...]

Would women who idolize Obama have given him a chance then?

Tuesday, July 14th, 2009

Warning: The article below may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. It is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons. Here’s a little to learn from Michelle Obama Most of us have fallen for our first family, the Obamas … such a universal picture of [...]

Emotional instability = Great sex?

Friday, July 10th, 2009

Jack Donaghy: I need your help, We were having sex at The Palace, she told me she loved me. Liz Lemon: You did it, again? Jack Donaghy: Well it was quick and in the meat locker, that’s ok, right? Liz Lemon: What is it with you men, you’re like you are junkies or something. Why [...]

When a man loves a woman …

Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

One minute you know he loves you, the next you are in a world of uncertainty. By far, the nastiest sure thing in life is unrequited love. And the process of finding out whether he loves you is excruciating … turning your life into an operation of massive and intense decoding. Just as men feel [...]

Do opposites really attract?

Tuesday, July 7th, 2009

Study finds they don’t … at least not in the long run. According to this new study, when it comes to personality, much as people claim to want someone who is different, they look for partners with same qualities as their own. After 760 members of an online dating site answered questionnaires regarding their personal [...]

Best reason to avoid first date sex

Friday, July 3rd, 2009

Some say it’s immoral to have sex on the first date; others say it drives away ‘relationship material’. Well, I don’t plan on going down that road. Instead, I will give you one more reason to avoid first date sex – SEX is that reason. Apparently, holding out on the magic – if only for [...]

Do mixed race adolescents behave badly?

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009

There are some bad adolescent behaviors that whites do more than blacks (like drinking and smoking), and there are other bad adolescent behaviors that blacks do more than whites (watching TV, fighting, getting sexually transmitted diseases). Mixed-race kids manage to be as bad as whites on the white behaviors and as bad as blacks on [...]