Archive for June, 2009

Is this how to raise mixed race children?

Tuesday, June 30th, 2009

Nicole Sprinkle is a White woman married to a Colombian. They have a daughter, Nina and she writes about raising a biracial child in an article “A Child of Two Worlds”. Would you adopt her style? In her article, Nicole writes about her experiences and concerns of raising a biracial child like: “Would her choices [...]

It’s not just a female thing. Men have menopause too!

Friday, June 26th, 2009

Male menopause? They say it’s real! For years, menopause has been dubbed a “woman’s condition” but it seems men also experience a decline in testosterone hormone levels as they match into their 40s. This causes ‘andropause’ which affects approximately 5 million dudes in the U.S. of A only. Lucky enough, hormonal decline in men isn’t [...]

The erection and matters of the male heart

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

Men who have trouble getting up could be having issues of heart. Not the mushy kind of issues … the physical stuff. (I know I almost got you ladies.) Back to the scientific stuff, not being able to get an erection could mean physical trouble for a man’s heart. It could be a sign of [...]

Casual encounters online

Tuesday, June 23rd, 2009

Are you looking for a steamy, no-strings-attached date? There are many places you can do this. You can either check out the bar scene or do it the convenient way – the internet. The internet has made things easy for most of us. And if used well, it can improve your love life and sex [...]

Dating preference? Racial discrimination?

Friday, June 19th, 2009

Most people who date interracially claim to have moved “beyond race”. However, more often than not, our decisions of who to date have and still are highly influenced by race. And the question of whether to date or not to date interracially seems to raise eyebrows – depending on how you look at it. When [...]

Dating someone in the meantime?

Wednesday, June 17th, 2009

“Never take a part-time job because it will become your full-time life.” – Pablo Picasso Do you have these friends who have never been single for as long as you’ve known them? They jump from one relationship to the next … From one part-time relationship (or rebound relationship if you please) to the next – [...]

Do we really notice the cellulite and the baldness?

Tuesday, June 16th, 2009

Cellulite. Baldness. Women spend $10 million a year on anti-cellulite products (which even research hasn’t proven they make any considerable change) while dudes spend over $3 billion in trying to combat even the slightest signs of baldness – when 40% of the people who suffer from hair loss are women! Yes … baldness has always [...]

Fetishes: What’s fun, what’s freaky?

Friday, June 12th, 2009

In 1997, singer Michael Hutchence, the Australian rock star and front man of INXS was found dead in a Hotel room in Sydney. His naked body was found hanging from the door of his hotel room. Presumed cause of death? Some freaky sexual episode of auto erotic asphyxiation, in which choking to the point of [...]

Can we divorce prejudice from dating preference?

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

Whenever one tries to explain why they prefer dating someone from a different race, they end up sounding prejudicial; not only to their own race but at times to the race of preference. Take the example of this white man trying to explain why he prefers dating Asian women: “I find Asian women very attractive. [...]

The passive victims of domestic violence

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009

You don’t necessarily have to be on the receiving end to qualify as a victim. Mercy, 34, grew up witnessing domestic violence. Her parents were very physical. When her dad left when she was around 7, it didn’t take long before mommy met abusive partner No.2. Mercy’s step father was not only a physical abuser, [...]