Archive for May, 2009

Civil rite denied!

Friday, May 29th, 2009

Expected? Shocking? The decision handed down on Tuesday by the California Supreme Court on upholding the same-sex marriage ban takes away rights of homosexual citizens in this country. Don’t they pay taxes? Don’t they follow laws of the land? Aren’t they outstanding citizens? So why was it hard to give them their well earned fundamental [...]

Online Dating: To tell the whole truth or not

Wednesday, May 27th, 2009

Most men largely prefer young, thin women. Most women prefer tall, successful men. And when it comes to online dating, the odds of being contacted if you don’t ‘fit the cut’ are much slimmer. Is it really in your best interests to tell the truth if more than 75% of the online daters will dismiss [...]

Friends with benefits or stress?

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

Is it possible for a woman to have a ‘friend with benefits’ and carry it out in the same manner a man would? As liberated women of the 21st century, we feel we should be able to engage in the same no-strings-attached sexual relationships men always have … that we can pull off flings and [...]

Does the female orgasm have a defined purpose?

Friday, May 22nd, 2009

We all know how complex the female orgasm is where sexuality is concerned. Some men have tried so much to get their women there. On the other hand, the women who have never experienced it, try so much to get there; even when sex with their partners is aaaaahhhh … fantastic. Is achieving an orgasm [...]

Wooing any woman any time

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

What is the best course of seduction from the first impression to the morning after? Here are some stages of seduction according to 1000 women. Asking her out: Being quirky but cute wont cut it. Only 7% of the women interviewed wanted to be asked out by way of a note or mix CD. The [...]

Are we such a color aroused lot?

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

According to Ronald E. Hall, co-author of the book “Racism in the 21st Century”, overt discrimination based on one’s race is declining. It is now more about colorism and the basis of prejudice is in one’s actual skin pigmentation. The book argues that lighter-skinned minorities receive preferential treatment over their darker counterparts when it comes [...]

The crazies we do for love

Friday, May 15th, 2009

A 29-year-old mother strangled her 7-year-old daughter in 2004 and threw her body in the river so she can win the love of her husband who would not accept the child because she was not his biologically. Unlucky for her she got arrested after committing the crime and the man she sacrificed her daughter for [...]

More rumination on interracial relationships

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009

I was hanging out at my female friend’s place some time back and I couldn’t help but notice that every woman I met there (starting from her mum and aunt (who are Black) to my pal and her cousins (who are mixed race) were either in a relationship with or married to a White man. [...]

Immigrants dating more within their ethnicities?

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

According to recent studies began by scholars on, how children of immigrants into the U.S. in recent years will date and marry, the results seem to beat the conventional wisdom of the open-minded Americanized generation. Apparently, this generation of immigrants (Hispanics and Asians) is leaning more towards getting spouses from their own ethnicities. Looking at [...]

Intelligent men make better sperm

Friday, May 8th, 2009

Study claims smart men are more fertile A study conducted in the UK on 425 men showed that the participants who scored highly on intelligence tests also spotted the ‘best’ sperm in terms of numbers, concentration and ability to move. Based on this study, scientists are about to conclude that high intelligence favors men genetically. [...]