Ever called someone and all you got was “you aren’t what I was expecting?” Sometimes it feels like online daters tend to resort to stereotypes and blatant racism when referring to other races in an attempt to choose their mates. Some are subtle (like merely stating racial preference of sought mate) while others are more [...]
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Archive for January, 2009
Online dating, racial preference and prejudice
Tuesday, January 27th, 2009Are you in the right relationship at the wrong time?
Wednesday, January 21st, 2009Ever been in a situation where you felt the love was right but the timing quite off? I know most of us have felt that way. An example is when both of you are so in love, you want to wed, but your partner isn’t ready. What do you do when you are in such [...]
Study: Interracial relationships causing black people in the UK to disappear
Tuesday, January 20th, 2009“If population projections based on the national census are to be believed, people who describe themselves as ‘mixed race’ could become the largest, single, ethnic minority group in the UK within the next 25 years.” – Laura Smith (The Catalyst Magazine) MediaTakeOut.com claims having got hold of an article in one of the UK newspapers [...]
Dating dangerously
Saturday, January 17th, 2009They used to say we want what we can’t have. But when it comes to dating, these days people are going after it and getting it. And the once taboo relationships are now the most successful. Since to your brain, danger and attraction are the same thing, let me share with you how to protect [...]
Believe in love and love will come
Wednesday, January 14th, 2009In her new book ‘The Soumate Secret’, author Arielle Ford says the first step to finding true love is to believe it’s out there. “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” — Rumi The first task is [...]
Can interracial marriage hurt ones chances of getting a job?
Friday, January 9th, 2009First off, our own president is in an interracial marriage and he managed to get his current job. One would hope that maybe race would play no factor in matters of employment … especially not some college football. However, UF defensive coordinator Charlie Strong (pictured right) thinks otherwise and blames his not getting a head-coaching [...]
The seven compartments of women
Wednesday, January 7th, 2009There are seven compartments that men place women in… and it’s very rare for a woman to graduate from one room to the next. Well, here is why I thought of this: My pal Janice has been having an affair with some guy Allan for quite a while now. Well, these two have been together [...]
Are we dating or just kicking it?
Wednesday, January 7th, 2009Now here is something that might get your head scratching as it does mine. You get all dolled up in a hot sexy dress, go out with a man to a dimly lit restaurant, and engage in some animated conversation. Come the end of the evening, you hug each other affectionately and everyone goes their [...]
Black women and marriage – Who will tell the truth?
Thursday, January 1st, 2009It is easier to cast black women as undesirable – too educated, too black, too … you know those names you keep calling them. But have you ever stopped to analyze the stats? Generally, marriage in the US has considerably dropped for every race … not just for the black woman. The marriage rate for [...]
