Archive for December, 2008

Is marriage for white people?

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

Warning: The above question may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The question is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons. It is simply meant to find out why statistics about marriage are the way they are. “Marriage is for white people”, said a sixth [...]

Why he is “small”

Monday, December 29th, 2008

Most of us (men and women alike) obsess about a man’s size. And I am not talking about his height or shoe size … his package. Well if you are always wondering why his member is small, here is why: mommy’s exposure to chemicals. New research says that if a pregnant mother is carrying a [...]

Overt and covert racism

Thursday, December 25th, 2008

Paula (Asian) thinks it’s a lot easier to deal with overt racism. When someone calls her “slitty eyes” or when people pull back their eyes to try and mock hers, she feels it’s much easier on her conscience since she has proof of the person’s feelings towards her race. Messed up as it is, she’d [...]

Premarital counseling: Is it necessary?

Monday, December 22nd, 2008

Whether or not to attend premarital counseling is what most couples planning a wedding have to decide. Most people I know do it; I kinda assume it’s a prerequisite for all couples intending to tie the knot. Janet – soon to be married – asked her fiancé Trevon where he thinks they should take theirs. [...]

Till vegan diet do us part

Thursday, December 18th, 2008

Some people give up certain foods by choice (like a kosher or vegan diet) or necessity (a gluten allergy). So what happens when you fall in love with someone who has dietary restrictions? She met him online … intriguing profile and vegan. Well, the vegan bit intrigued her coz she found it admirable that someone [...]

Do women prefer polyandry to monogamy?

Tuesday, December 16th, 2008

Want to know why females tend to have multiple partners? Well, an international study by British and Japanese researchers from the Universities of Exeter (UK), Okayama (Japan) and Liverpool (UK) says that females evolved to mate with more partners to avoid producing offspring carrying the “selfish gene” from the male. Apparently, some males carry this [...]

Biracial and hating the other side

Monday, December 15th, 2008

This is a Tyra show video about biracial women who hate one side of their racial composition or the other. Most biracial people find themselves struggling with identity. What am I? Black, White, Hispanic? And more often than not, they also get caught up in families, especially their grandparents, rejecting them for being biracial or [...]

Quit settling for mediocre sex

Friday, December 12th, 2008

In relationships, there are so many deal-breakers. Some of the qualities our prospective partners possess unalterable and these do purge any possibility of there being a happy relationship. Other qualities like he wants kids and you don’t are critical compatibility indicators. Others like, he has small hands, are plain shallow. But one potential deal-breaker we [...]

Interracial dating and black men

Tuesday, December 9th, 2008

What do people really think of the Black man? Low! The video below is such an inspiration. It shows us what we think of the Black man and what really is! I mean, even the Black men underrate themselves. I mean, do we really think Black men are soooo anti-education? Well, truth be told, lets [...]

Does she baby you?

Monday, December 8th, 2008

Why is it that at the first indication of a committed relationship, a woman tends to treat her man as a child? This is somewhere along the list of things men don’t understand about women. The thing is, when the relationship is casual, most women are usually more flexible and accommodating. But once a dude [...]