Archive for August, 2008

My King…My Queen

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

Have you ever been given the royalty treatment by a spouse? Has someone ever said to you ‘Hon… how about a foot massage’ after you worked out? What about breakfast in bed … something so scrumptious; the smell just makes you open your sleepy eyes? How about those cards that say little yet enough to [...]

Metrosexual man vs. cave man – Who rules?

Tuesday, August 26th, 2008

Sexuality is regulated and shaped by women to suit their needs these days; its no wonder men who are in touch with their feminine side carry the day. Just because the woman in your life says it looks good on you don’t really mean that it is. Good thing is, there are still some very [...]

Infidelity in women

Monday, August 25th, 2008

He was one of the good guys … the kind that cleans the house and all the things women expect their husbands to do. Turns out he was one of those married guys who lie about an affair with a woman who produced his campaign videos and only came clean after being cornered by the [...]

Is interracial dating “beyond race” or “anti-racist” dating?

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

Most people in interracial relationships fall in the category of seeing themselves as ‘beyond race’. Such people claim not ‘see’ color when they look at people. (Some special gift this one ) And remarks that follow – “I don’t even think of you as [White, Black, Mixed, Asian or whatever]�? Quite sentimental huh? Well, I [...]

Interracial dating: getting personal

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

I was going through various interracial dating articles the other day and I bumped into this comment. My first reaction was WTF! Are we ever going to get past black and white dating? Are we ever going to let Black-White interracial couples just be? Well this I had to share: “I feel that interracial dating [...]

When your spouse has a disease that rules out sex

Monday, August 11th, 2008

If your wife or husband had a skin condition that affects the genital area which makes it itchy and painful, or any other disease that rules out sex completely, what would you do … especially if you are very healthy with one very healthy sex-drive and frustrated, and at your wit’s end?

Online dating sites and commitment

Friday, August 8th, 2008

All kinds of online dating sites keep coming up … catering to every fetish and desire imaginable. Men and women alike keep spending most of their times typing away, engrossed in some conversation with someone on the other end. Do you think that online dating sites make it more difficult to make a commitment and/or [...]

One more interracial ridicule: Confusion

Friday, August 8th, 2008

Today, while walking on the streets minding by own business – or not – a black woman walked by hand in hand with this white guy. Cute interracial couple I thought – up until my thoughts were rudely interrupted by some hot black guys comment. “This is the height of all mothers of confusion. Have [...]

What do women want sexually?

Tuesday, August 5th, 2008

Even science can’t say exactly. Scientists at the borders of research on the most eternal question of what women find erotic, came up with the latest answer – NOT naked guys … at least not simply naked guys. According to Meredith Chivers in her new documentary ‘Bi the Way’ about bisexuality, “… looking at a [...]

Does sex gets better with age?

Tuesday, August 5th, 2008

I must admit the idea of grams and gramps banging kinda creeps me out … I mean what if his blood pressure gets too high from the erection and passes out … or on? Well, like it or not, 70 year olds admit to getting their freak on now more than they did 30 years [...]