Archive for June, 2008

Testing One, Two, and Three?

Saturday, June 14th, 2008

The other day I came across a book called “The Way of the Superior Man”. The title alone made me, as a woman a little uneasy. I admit had some pre-conceived ideas that it was going to be another one of “those” male ego boosting take control and dominate your woman type of books… My [...]

For The Love or Money?

Friday, June 13th, 2008

Hey, this is your girl Leticia fresh off a nice little vacation filled with things that I don’t usually allow myself to…enjoy is not quite the word. Witness is probable a better choice. I took a few days to do absolutely nothing that required clothes, shoes or thought… I highly recommend this every 6-months or [...]

So to forgive is divine. Why is it so hard then?

Wednesday, June 11th, 2008

“Ultimately, what inspires us to forgive is more often selfishness than anything else. It hurts too much to stay angry and it becomes self-destructive to hold back forgiveness. We forgive for the sake of love; we just sometimes get stuck on the way there.” – Dr. Laura Berman, Berman Center, Chicago Fighting with the people [...]

Interracial children – Bridging the Biology-Racism gap

Tuesday, June 10th, 2008

Children from interracial families have to deal with identity issues. Some people will see them as biracial hence belonging to no race. Others will treat them based on how they look (depending on the dominant race). We have also heard of cases of biracial offsprings checking off both say “BLACK᾿ and “WHITE᾿ boxes when filling [...]

Is sleeping apart the key to a happy marriage?

Monday, June 9th, 2008

A woman faced jail after stabbing and beating her husband to death. In Britain, one in four couples resort to separate beds. Reason? SNORING partners The above are tragic-comic glimpses into a serious but rarely discussed issue for couples – sleep incompatibilities. My dude wakes me up more than six times a night because he [...]

Should race be emphasized in trans-racial adoption?

Thursday, June 5th, 2008

Shannon Gibney once adopted by white parents said she longed for information she could not get from books “Minority children in foster care are being ill-served by a federal law that plays down race and culture in adoptions᾿ According to a report released recently, white parents need preparation and training for special challenges that children [...]

Surviving divorce … Sleeping alone

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

The best time of my day is just before I sleep … The time when I get to cuddle my one and only so tight and kiss her goodnight. That is the highlight of my day. And when she is not around, I barely sleep – that of course is after having enough shots of [...]

Empty profiles

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

Some people not only make online dating hard for themselves, but hard for those searching too. Or should I say easy? Well it all depends on how you look at it. Some online daters hardly provide specific information about themselves and even their profile photos provide no apparent hints. What is one supposed to write [...]

Beyond Geography

Sunday, June 1st, 2008

Is there a reluctance to say someone who lives in England/United States getting to know someone in the Caribbean? How can that scenario or relationship thrive or move to the next level? – One of my readers asked. If Russel Crowe got his a** arrested and charged with second -degree assault and fourth-degree criminal possession [...]