Archive for June, 2008

30-day sex fast

Monday, June 30th, 2008

Want to have better sex? Try a 30-day fast. According to Sex therapist Ian Kerner, more satisfaction in the bedroom may sometimes entail stepping outside of it. This is in his new book ‘Sex Detox’. And the remedy he suggests to help rejuvenate your relationship is a 30-day sex fast. The whole point is that [...]

When your spouse goes AWOL

Friday, June 27th, 2008

Does your spouse have a habit of disappearing from your relationship when you need them most? Do they spend weekends away, not because they are busy at work, but coz they are out drinking or having fun with friends? Sometimes you may realize that the last time you two sat and talked was … you-cant-remember. [...]

Relationship deal-breakers

Friday, June 27th, 2008

The new trend it town that seems to have hit most of my male friends is, whenever one of them meets a woman and shows some form of interest in her, she always does something to push him away. And the deal-breaker seems to be kind of universal – DMF as I like to call [...]

Out with the old babe … in with the new!

Tuesday, June 24th, 2008

One thing women admire – and at the same time loathe – about men is our resilience when it comes to pursuing the object of our affection. Once a man has fixed his sight on some woman, no matter how many refutations he gets, he is just like a cheater after a helpless gazelle (best [...]

Sex in the Conservative city

Monday, June 23rd, 2008

The conservative woman is fighting battles on two fronts: The Big Mama’s girl and the modern expectations of who she should be. The big thing for most girls has been Sex and the City … the premiere of the movie that is. Me and my girls have had many debates ignited after watching the movie. [...]

The stranger … my husband

Wednesday, June 18th, 2008

Much as one can petition the court to honor conjugal rights, is there really a way to ensure compliance? I have a lady pal who has been married for 10 years and has two children. She and the hubby leave in different cities. The hubby, for the last three years has become a stranger in [...]

When he loses his job, which spouse gets hit hardest?

Wednesday, June 18th, 2008

Nothing can be more destabilizing for a marriage like a husband losing his job Handling a spouse’s job loss is something I myself must admit that I really wouldn’t know how to hack the situation. I have seen women calling their husbands’ names in front of the kids, calling them good for nothing, lazy and [...]

I am leaving if you don’t commit

Monday, June 16th, 2008

Most people have been dating for longer that they can remember. Sometimes people reach that point where the relationship is like stagnant – not moving forward or backwards. Then there reaches a time when one person has to move on – say another job in a different state or something and a decision has to [...]

What Do You Do For You?

Saturday, June 14th, 2008

It’s a beautiful Sunday afternoon. Weather man said it’s going to get up to 78 degrees. Current temp is 79. The sun is shining and I want to go out and stand in the middle of the parking lot just to get out of the house. But, no can’t do it… Under a few self-imposed [...]

Are You Shy or Just Lonely?

Saturday, June 14th, 2008

Hey this is Leticia. Some time ago, I remember doing an article on the epidemic of loneliness in our country and actually all over the world… I remember how writing it made me feel when I thought about all the people that I’d met in my former career as a radio person. There would be [...]