Archive for April, 2008

Wireless connections in bed

Tuesday, April 22nd, 2008

Big-screen Tvs, smart phones, laptops … Are these a substitute for sex these days? Is it safe to say we are spending mad cash to kill of our sex lives? Look around us … I am talking about the pricey technology we hold so dear … like the one I am using to write this [...]

That’s our song

Friday, April 18th, 2008

Music … it makes even those in a coma just about to cross over to the other side come back to us. And what a great equalizer when getting to know someone in the early stages of dating. Now I can vouch for that. I must admit I even have a song for the day [...]

Online dating profile photos – The don’ts

Thursday, April 17th, 2008

Having been to various online dating sites, I think there are a few things I have learned by scanning through hundreds of profiles of eligible spinsters … and bachelors (not that am into guys but you know, some things are usually so off that you cant help browsing through the profile just to understand why [...]

Fetish or Preference?

Wednesday, April 16th, 2008

We always talk about interracial dating and interracial sex. Well today, let’s take the debate a notch or two higher and pose the following question: Is interracial dating a preference or fetish? And at what level or point does admiration of certain features – say kinky hair, petite stature – become total fetish?

Lesson from the ex

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

Exes! If there was a pill that could do some selective erasing of the Ex memories, or if our brains could just be formatted like a comp … if … if… We all love to just move on after that break up. But then again, are break ups really that bad? We don’t just come [...]

Do you have a love face or lust face?

Monday, April 14th, 2008

Ever wondered why you get hit on by guys who just want some hit and run? Or women just want to have a one night stand with you? Here is the answer … You have a ‘lust’ face! Apparently, facial features tell whether you are looking for love or lust. If you are looking for [...]

Celebrity relationships – should we struggle to be all kissy?

Friday, April 11th, 2008

Lights … Camera … Action! When it comes to media spotlight, do we really get what we see? Imagine girls that starve themselves to look like cover models on some glamorous magazine. Now lets take a look at celebrity relationships on the spotlight … should everyday couples attempt to live their lives like the kissy-kissy [...]

Scheduling sex – maker or breaker?

Thursday, April 10th, 2008

Ever reached the OMG-we-haven’t-had-sex-in-a-month point of your relationship. Well, if you have ever gotten here or have just gotten here, I am sure you must have considered scheduling sex into your agenda. And this is when it really hits you – your relationship isn’t going so well. Sometimes, especially when those little brats we really [...]

Lacking libido – not just a female problem

Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

A troubled wife calls some sex therapist about her sex life having taken a rather noticeable nosedive. She’s famished for the steamy sex they used to have. Tables have turned. He is the one with the ‘headache’. A dude who doesn’t want some … you must be sh**ing me! Now this is what I call [...]

Black women on interracial unions

Tuesday, April 8th, 2008

We have seen the rise in of interracial relationships over the past twenty-five years but still there are any people who remain harsh critics of mixed unions. Before – in the middle of the Twentieth Century – parents of Caucasian women seemed to be heavily against the idea of an interracial relationship. Now, with the [...]