Archive for December, 2007

New Year’s dating resolutions

Monday, December 31st, 2007

So how has spending 2007 on the online dating scene been like for you? What were your highs and lows? Any roller coaster flings, crushing rejections, rejected winks and unwanted advances that irritate you but secretly caress your ego? There maybe so much you could change about 2007 … if only you could turn back [...]

Washroom drama

Friday, December 28th, 2007

Why do women visit the washrooms in pairs? Men often wonder. And why do they take so long in there? It may not be the best place to take a retreat but women and washrooms are likely to remain inseparable for a long time to come. Some crucial life changing decisions have been made in [...]

First date flubs

Wednesday, December 26th, 2007

Is your dating resume a series of one-night stands? Guys ask you out on dates – all the time. You have it all – looks, successful career and outside interests to back that up. Problem is, guys hardly ever seem to call you for a second date. What are you doing wrong? Making a good [...]

Do dating sites encourage racial prejudice?

Monday, December 24th, 2007

…“Perhaps one way to see the status of racism is to go to dating sites and check on the preferences of people, the ethnicity is a case in point.”… When creating your profile on dating sites, one thing one has to fill out is the ethnic preference of your potential mate. ‘I am looking for [...]

Too much loving kills love?

Friday, December 21st, 2007

The phrase run for the hills is usually used when a man needs space … fresh air which guys need desperately to survive in relationships these days. Not my words people. That is just one pal of mine stressing that women must learn the delicate balance between being a girlfriend and being a wife. According [...]

Is there just ONE one and only for you?

Thursday, December 20th, 2007

Nearly 82% of American couples said they believe they have met the love of their lives according to some poll. So is there really someone tailor made for each one of us? So many people usually have very many opinions about this topic of THE ONE. Some people feel that you would rather hold out [...]

Has Cupid’s arrow been blunted by online dating?

Wednesday, December 19th, 2007

“Online dating has blunted cupid’s arrow᾿ went one headline. That was before I saw the picture of the ‘unemployed cupid’ above with that caption “online dating killed cupid᾿. Try asking your grandparents how they met. They will tell you by the river or some hill, and it was love at first sight and before they [...]

Are interracial loving folks disillusioned?

Tuesday, December 18th, 2007

“Most of what I read about IR relationships is this kind of phoney P.C. stuff … For once I’d love to hear these IR-loving folks admit … that race does matter.” The above is one black man’s opinion on interracial dating. This got me thinking. Does race really matter? Do people tell the truth about [...]

Mr/Mrs wrong could be right

Monday, December 17th, 2007

“Why is it so hard to meet the perfect spouse?᾿ Does this sound like anyone you know; or you perhaps? You have searched for your perfect one but nothing has come out of it. Don’t you think its time you peered more closely to Mr. or Mrs. Potential? Fine so he’s not exactly the type [...]

Merry Christ – Chanukah-Kwanzaa – mas

Sunday, December 16th, 2007

When what you believe comes between you and the one you love… You love the way they look, act, walk, talk and dream. They love all the things that the kids use to tease you about in grade school. His friends are your friends and your friends are her friends and your families couldn’t have [...]