Archive for July, 2007

The real goal is to delete your profile…right?

Sunday, July 15th, 2007

So, you’re in the mood for love and something or someone has brought you to the World Wide Web…now what? It doesn’t matter if you’ve been dating on-line five years or five minutes. We all need a little help refreshing ourselves and putting our best features forward in an attempt to make it to that [...]

Dealing with the dirty "D" word…

Sunday, July 15th, 2007

How many times have you heard or said “man I’m so depressed”? At some point in time we all feel the “feelings” of depression. For many; about 19 million, depression is a day to day battle. Anyone can experience this illness. Even though women are twice as likely to suffer from it, men are three [...]

Hooking up or dating?

Sunday, July 15th, 2007

Have you encountered more hooking up than actual dating? Hooking up is a common thing among most singles… especially those who have been single a little too long… meeting someone at the bar or a friends party and suddenly you are just make out – JUST. During the post-divorce/post-relationship era, most people find it quite [...]

Online versus offline dating

Thursday, July 12th, 2007

Do you prefer online dating to the traditional man-meets-woman dating? Well if you do, then it seems you have people to back you up. According to a May 2007 survey by one online dating website, US single dads declared that online dating is their ideal method of meeting singles. The survey was prompted by an [...]

Traffic lights of falling in love

Wednesday, July 11th, 2007

Falling in love is one very trivial issue. For some it’s smooth sailing… for others, stormy. One thing most of you will agree with me is that you can never be too sure when to dive in. So when is the right time to give your all? Well someone very creative came up with the [...]

Black and White Cookies

Friday, July 6th, 2007

Have you ever tried to explain why you date interracially to someone who is totally against interracial dating and even after all that effort, you still feel the nail didn’t hit the head… like it kind of slipped? What do you think of this one? “The thing about eating the Black and White cookie… is [...]

Can dating more than one person be ok? Tell me about it

Thursday, July 5th, 2007

Is there a particular time when dating multiple people is excusable? Did I just hear a “HELL NO!᾿? Well, according to some people there are times when you can be excused. One lady said that since she has always been the type of girl that gets into serious relationships a little too soon, she figured [...]

Does Art have a role to play in interracial dating?

Wednesday, July 4th, 2007

Never underestimate the power of Artwas the phrase that caught my attention in an article (Jesse Davis Murder Highlights Perils Of Interracial Relationships). Jesse was a white woman who was murdered by her Black spouse/ Canton Police officer Bobby Cutts Jr. And what’s worse is that she was pregnant at the time. So what’s Art [...]

Should you really shack up?

Monday, July 2nd, 2007

Eric realized their relationship was in trouble when her panties tried to strangle him. And then the non-stop sex stopped. So the big question was… Are we really living together? Well, that Eric is my pal. He had come to one cruel realization… living with his girlfriend required some adjustment. ‘James? It makes you start [...]

The lure of the forbidden

Monday, July 2nd, 2007

Ever been in a position where every guy or woman you have really lusted after is an out-of-bonds one? And if they ever come back into play, e.g. leaves the girlfriend or boyfriend they just never seem to be as interesting? The lure of the forbidden mmmm mmmmm!!! What makes you want the one man [...]