Archive for May, 2007

Chinese dating sites promoting prostitution

Wednesday, May 30th, 2007

Ever heard of dating website promoting prostitution? In China they do. With stiff competition within the dating website sector in China, most dating websites have resorted to distributing pornographic materials and organizing cyber strip shows. Kicks of a dying horse. It’s all about doing all that’s in their power to make themselves more marketable so [...]

Threesome with porn

Monday, May 28th, 2007

Is porn the third person in your relationship? Are you enjoying the threesome? Experimenting with your ‘mistress’ porn can land you into some deep shit. As much as we men think porn is harmless fun … women on the other hand find porn degrading and disgusting. Many couples have encountered this third party. Women catching [...]

Marriage vs dating

Monday, May 28th, 2007

Is matrimony the golden ticket to a lifetime of great sex, meaningful conversations and a lifetime of blissful love? Most single people rush into it with the notion that this is how it’s going to be. But those who are mired in marriage know that once the hormone-induced endorphine wears off, marriage is pretty much [...]

Online dating – First offline date

Friday, May 25th, 2007

Meeting your online date offline for the first time? After being chat buddies all that time, you may think you know someone. And since both of you clicked online, you don’t want anything to go wrong. You prepare and obsess about making everything perfect. You plan the entire conversation. You even take the afternoon off [...]

Is sex that natural?

Wednesday, May 23rd, 2007

Do you believe that sex is natural? Do you think sex is as breathing and therefore you don’t need to discuss it? Well think again. I think men should make a point of eavesdropping on the so called ‘girl talk’ and hear the gory details of sexual encounters and disappointments being discussed. I was in [...]

Black women on interracial dating

Tuesday, May 22nd, 2007

People usually have different views when it comes to interracial dating. I’m sure you too have your own. How does seeing people of the opposite race and opposite sex holding hands on the streets make you feel? Angry, happy, envious? I was once having lunch with my truly black girls at a restaurant when a [...]

Out of Africa

Sunday, May 20th, 2007

Just a note of thanks to your site for providing the place for my husband and I to meet. Ola and I met first in December 2006 through your website. After my initially turning his letter down, he emailed me again and I responded. Our friendship grew and love soon began to flourish. Turmoil erupted [...]

The kept woman

Saturday, May 19th, 2007

Ever wondered why husbands keep mistress? Ever been in a position where your boyfriend cheats on you and you wonder what you did to push him away? I once had a chance to talk to a friend of mine who is a ‘kept woman’ Correct me if am wrong but according to this long-serving mistress, [...]

Dating-How much should you reveal

Saturday, May 19th, 2007

Dating can be quit tricky. Have you ever found yourself in the dilemma of ‘To tell or not to tell’? Does your spouse have a tendency to say things that would be better left unsaid? Honesty in a relationship is very important. But so is being wise. We may fill the urge to lay everything [...]

Will your interracial relationship stand the test of time?

Thursday, May 17th, 2007

Although most of us may have grown in multiracial communities, providing us with different perspectives and fewer prejudice, most parents and grandparents always disapprove of us mingling with ‘the others.’ Well am not here to bore you with what you already know. The big question is will your interracial relationship survive such a society? Convincing [...]