I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life. I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. Please don't confuse spirituality with being religious... There's a difference. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. I need someone whom I can respect and will respect me. He just has to be worthy because I'm worth a lot.