When online dating success is a problem

Posted by James

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Take this case:

“Believe me, I’m not a bad looker (my picture is posted); I’m educated; and I like to do things… but for me it’s (online dating) just not working…�

Then there is this:

“Three months ago, I joined an online dating service. I’ve been getting a great response — too great. I’m getting mixed up about who is who….�

The above are two opposing complaints about online dating. Some people why they aren’t to getting a positive response to their profiles, whilst others, too many responses become a problem because you have too many to choose from.

Too many interests in one’s profile may be a problem in that while deciding to follow up on some of the members who have shown interest in you, sometimes they are just dead ends and you may have been ignoring the one that may actually have developed to meaningful relationship.

How does one handle the too-much-too-fast situation?

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  1. I hope we can become pen pals. I like you as far I have seen you

  2. I was hoping someone had an answer out there for me.

  3. I have the same problem as described above. I guess its good to forget about your account for a while, then look at it again and let your gut feeling tell you who you would like to date.

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