One thing women admire – and at the same time loathe - about men is our resilience when it comes to pursuing the object of our affection. Once a man has fixed his sight on some woman, no matter how many refutations he gets, he is just like a cheater after a helpless gazelle (best way I can describe it). Those that won’t take ‘NO’ for an answer.
Half the time, conquering is the only thing that will quell the desire of pursuit; because even when the woman is in the hands of another man, the chase gets even more tempting. Thing some men don’t realize is how annoying it is to pursue a woman who has clearly said ‘NO’ (CAPS, BOLD and UNDERLINED).
They say women usually say ‘NO’ when they mean ‘YES’ – this kind of mentality is what increases the high rate of rape and sexual offenses. Do these people think women need to be coy and non-aggressive particularly when it comes to sex? What an annoying part of the female inheritance.
Lucky enough, the 21st century woman has learned that to survive in this man’s world, they had better embrace the same assertiveness and directness that men can understand. And out went the circle drawing with the feet and the games that sweetly exemplified the girl under pursuit. Today’s woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to go for it. If she holds the company’s IT infrastructure in her hands or runs marketing campaigns that convince the whole world to buy a product, why the hell would she say ‘NO’ when she means ‘YES’?
Not to sound a pig but I kinda miss the old girl who sits and waits for prince charming to come and ask – on his knees – for her hand in marriage. 
Sexy for her is defined by her eyes – not her curves because they are somewhere buried in an ocean of cloth. WHO AM I KIDDING? This woman is so gone and I have no problem with women of today. Women who know happiness IS NOT defined by marriage … just because a man offered to buy her a drink.
So when she says ‘NO’ to that date of yours, she really has no desire to go out with you. And in case she changes her mind, trust me, she will find you.
Just for kicks, which woman do you prefer? The old girl that drew circles with her toes or the new girl in town?
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Comment by barbiedoll7 on 28 June 2008:
Personally, I have CHANGED from the old type of girl to the new type, and I LOVE it! I love the empowering and free feeling of knowing what I want and being able to be clear about it. I love feeling strong like a man and it actually makes me feel a lot more sensual.
Comment by Jaysir on 29 June 2008:
I prefer the new type. I don’t have a problem with persuit, it’s if I go too far in the persuit and think no means yes when it doesn’t, it can lead to felonious criminal charges that might just ruin my life. I don’t have time for that.