Do you believe that sex is natural? Do you think sex is as breathing and therefore you don’t need to discuss it? Well think again. I think men should make a point of eavesdropping on the so called ‘girl talk’ and hear the gory details of sexual encounters and disappointments being discussed.
I was in the company of my cousins once and I almost swore myself to celibacy… “I don’t know if to call it incompatibility, ignorance or mis-performance. Believe me some sexual encounters leave you screaming WHY THE FUCK DID I LET THEM PANTS DROP!!!â€? she went.
Discussing sex with men is one thing that most women fear. And most women end up sentencing themselves to years and eons of bad sex and phrases like “I Love my husband; we just not sexually compatible” become an everyday song.
Do you believe in the phrase ‘sexual incompatibility’? Unless your partner excels in mind reading, there is no way he or she can just know what you like and want. Notions like ‘if he doesn’t know by now, he never will’ will drive you to an 18 year old and wreck whatever good relationship you have tried to build over the years.
So people, much as we think sex is natural, it aint. And women, it’s never too late to stop using them dildos as a substitute. Talk to us men… not with your girlfriends! Let your men know what makes you tick 
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Comment by Devi on 24 May 2007:
I believe sex is very natural but, we are immature in communicating how we want/need it. People, if you’re adult enough to ‘do it’, then you should be adult enough to talk about it. It’s only a dirty little secret if we’re doing something we know we shouldn’t be doing.
Comment by ionica on 1 June 2007:
simpatic
Comment by The fab five on 1 June 2007:
sex is a s natural as it comes but only with the right person a one night stand or a fling is not so natura. But be grown enough to discuss the issues that can and will make it better if you can’t then why bother at all?
Comment by hiimsteph on 15 July 2007:
This was a very interesting article. Why do women turn to their friends in advice about something that deals with their man? Cause HE’S the one you go to bed with every night, not you your girlfriends