Hello to all from sunny Miami where we have 87F and tomorrow they say we will get 51 gooo figure!
My name is James Morris and I will be writing daily about the happenings occurring in the interracial dating universe and not only!
A few words about me, I am 31 years old and I work for this site for the past 6 months as a Public Relations specialist and occasional coffee fetcher 
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I grew up as a kid in sunny Miami and after 2 tours in the USMC, 4 years in college and allot of traveling, I think I can say with a certain amount of certainty that I know my way around (LOL) .
What we want to do with this blog is simple, we want to help everyone not familiar with dating people of different culture and color to understand what interracial dating is: The exploring that occurs between two people that happen to have different color skin, but are attracted to each other naturally.
So stay tuned in this blog and remember to have your eyes open and your mind even more and who knows, maybe our next success story is going to be yours!
~JM
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Comment by _Legion_ on 5 June 2009:
Ahhhh….f^ck that. Why should a white man date a black woman when they feel they have no other option. So black women run to white men because they have no choice? That ain’t about love, it’s about desperation. Any white man should revolt against any stupid a$$ sh!t like that. What a joke. Hell, if you think that, I tend to think somewhere inside ALL black women think that, regardless of what they say on the outside. That just confirms my suspicions that it ain’t worth the time & effort to chase a black woman. What a f^cking joke. Stay away from us white men who are only looking for TRUE love and not a second option.
Comment by Ichibod on 4 July 2009:
Exactly, Legion. She makes herself and women like her sound like leftovers or crumbs. At the same time, you make the men you are running to feel the same way. Honestly, what man of any race would want that? It’s weird how she posted on this topic rather than the ‘Black Women have no option’ blog.
Her mom had to show her brothers? Did they ever express distaste for black women? Have you ever talked to them about it? And the question I always love to ask… where’s your dad? My mom didn’t have to teach me how to love and respect her. I just do because she loves and respects me. Yet, my mom doesn’t represent all black women. I can never say anything negative about black women as a whole nor can I make assumptions about what motivates black women or what they are feeling.
It’s about building self-esteem and swallowing pride. Some people are too proud and use it to determine their self worth. When that fails them, as in the case of this chick, she feels no one wants her rather than realize ‘who would want you if you feel that low about yourself?’. Would a black man choosing another black woman over you make you feel any better? Think about that. Where’s your photo, sister? That might be why you’re not having the best of luck with the men. Love yourself first. I don’t want you to think I trying to tear you down, but get with the program! I don’t know you, but I believe you may be better than that. Best of luck to you. Sis!
Comment by _Legion_ on 4 July 2009:
Ichibod:
You seem like a really cool guy and someone to hold a conversation with. I respect that unlike others (insert names here____). That comment was made when I first joined the site. I had no idea what I was getting into, since I am a first timer. This place is a good option for me as a white man, to approach/be approached by black and latino women. It’s like for me, being in junior high and after all these years your parents tell you that you are moving away. Then having to go to a new school and having no idea who anyone is, etc. That’s what it feels like for me. But this is something I want to do, and a strong feeling for women of other races.
I don’t have a particular reason why I have a desire for women of opposite race, I just know it’s there and that’s a good enough reason for me. I mean hell, you could have asked me even 2 years ago if I would date inter-racially, and I would have probably bloodied somebody’s nose for asking such a question. Before, I never entertained the thought of dating out.
I guess that I am getting older (28), I realize (and thank God) for opening my eyes to other races. I have become color blind to dating. I don’t want to just get to know a black woman/women, I want to learn the culture and everything there is to learn about it.
Everyone is here to find someone of opposite race, for the most part, and for whatever reason. I believe everyone has a right to date/marry whomever they please, without anyone conceiving or trying to make a judgment for them. Unfortunately, it all ends with the skin color and what a sad pathetic world this is. I wish you Ichibod good luck in whatever you seek and that you may find what you desire.
Good Day
Legion