http://www.InterracialDatingCentral.com/blog/flirting-boyfriends.htm Interracial Dating and Multicultural Dating Community Blog Fri, 21 Nov 2008 11:16:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 http://www.InterracialDatingCentral.com/blog/flirting-boyfriends.htm#comment-2957 drmom4u Sat, 11 Oct 2008 23:47:04 +0000 http://www.InterracialDatingCentral.com/blog/flirting-boyfriends.htm#comment-2957 I think that this is a matter of personal preference and what one is willing to TOLERATE and what you think of YOURSELF. I understand that men can be highly visual people, as can women, but you can best believe there would be HOWLS of righteous indignation, along with liberal use of the "s" word if a woman were to do this as blatantly as I've seen some men. In my mind, the difference between a man and a GENTLEMAN is that the gentleman may wish to look but can do so discretely and without causing his date discomfort. I may not be Miss America, but the fact remains that the MAN asked me out or at least AGREED to the date. In that case, I believe I am due the respect of you sharing your time and attention with me. Otherwise I have a LOT of work or fun things I can do with friends who value me as a person and don't need to 'feel up' the waitress with their eyes. Friends who also don't think that behavior is acceptable and then at the end of the date want to sample the merchandise. And before someone says women are the same - yes I have a couple of acquaintances like that and one lost a nice guy because of it. I told her she had it coming. I think that this is a matter of personal preference and what one is willing to TOLERATE and what you think of YOURSELF. I understand that men can be highly visual people, as can women, but you can best believe there would be HOWLS of righteous indignation, along with liberal use of the “s” word if a woman were to do this as blatantly as I’ve seen some men. In my mind, the difference between a man and a GENTLEMAN is that the gentleman may wish to look but can do so discretely and without causing his date discomfort. I may not be Miss America, but the fact remains that the MAN asked me out or at least AGREED to the date. In that case, I believe I am due the respect of you sharing your time and attention with me. Otherwise I have a LOT of work or fun things I can do with friends who value me as a person and don’t need to ‘feel up’ the waitress with their eyes. Friends who also don’t think that behavior is acceptable and then at the end of the date want to sample the merchandise. And before someone says women are the same - yes I have a couple of acquaintances like that and one lost a nice guy because of it. I told her she had it coming.

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