How do you ask for the sex you want?

Most women find it hard to talk about sex in general let alone ask for the kind of sex they want. Maybe it’s because they don’t have adequate education about sexuality, maybe they just lack the language to discuss sex. Maybe they have self esteem issues, or they just assume it’s the duty of... full story

Interracial couple kissing churns stomachs

“The 7 Best Places to Smooch” was one of the stories on the 10th April cover of GO! magazine and to go along with it was this photo of an interracial couple kissing. Well, that photo ended up generating a lot of queasiness in many – evidenced by reader comments of the online version - simply... full story

Black women. Black men. Best frenemies.

I have to agree there is a large number of loving couples within the black community. That aside, we still have a crisis within black relationships. For eons on end, black women and black men have been at each others necks … still are. They experience this when trying to date, marry and... full story

Black women have no option?

Warning: This post may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The post is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons. It is simply meant to find out what people think about black white dating.

In a bid to explain why Black women get upset about Black... full story

Why are more men turning down sex lately?

First of all, are men even allowed to turn down sex?

The first time man said “No” to a woman brought forth a lot of questioning and hypothesizing – Am I not attractive enough? Is he gay? Something I said? For years men have dependably wanted sex and we aren’t known for the “not-tonight”... full story

Can sex with a stranger be intimate?

The guru Dr. Ruth Westheimer writes about improving intimacy, which is a key ingredient for sexual satisfaction.

Two strangers can’t really be intimate, no matter what they do together sexually, because while their bodies may be joined, they’re emotionally and mentally disconnected…... full story

Attitudes towards Valentine’s day

Valentine’s day is here again… a day that can make or break your relationship. Most men have been found guilty of either forgetting or even ignoring this day while some have sent Valentines to women who had no idea the men had crushes on them. So, how should you start this day?

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Do we ever learn?

A woman grows up witnessing an abusive marriage between her parents which leaves the whole family miserable. She finally leaves home and meets this guy. As their relationship builds up, she sees flashes of violence in him, maybe even been struck once or twice. She knows she should run, but for some... full story

Interracial or same race relationships?

Halle Berry, President Barack Obama … both are mixed race Americans. However, the media and most Americans see them as Black. But if memory serves me well, they are both half-white.

Most of us have chosen not to see President Obama’s marriage to Michelle as an interracial marriage.... full story

Dating dangerously

They used to say we want what we can’t have. But when it comes to dating, these days people are going after it and getting it. And the once taboo relationships are now the most successful. Since to your brain, danger and attraction are the same thing, let me share with you how to protect yourself... full story

The seven compartments of women

There are seven compartments that men place women in… and it’s very rare for a woman to graduate from one room to the next. Well, here is why I thought of this:

My pal Janice has been having an affair with some guy Allan for quite a while now. Well, these two have been together the whole... full story

Is marriage for white people?

Warning: The above question may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The question is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons. It is simply meant to find out why statistics about marriage are the way they are.

“Marriage is for white people”,... full story

Do women prefer polyandry to monogamy?

Want to know why females tend to have multiple partners?

Well, an international study by British and Japanese researchers from the Universities of Exeter (UK), Okayama (Japan) and Liverpool (UK) says that females evolved to mate with more partners to avoid producing offspring carrying the... full story

Interracial dating and black men

What do people really think of the Black man? Low! This video is such an inspiration. It shows us what we think of the Black man and what really is! I mean, even the Black men underrate themselves. I mean, do we really think Black men are soooo anti-education?

Well, truth be told, lets... full story

How to turn that predictable date into an unforgettable escapade

“Why am I on this boring date?” Yawn! “What next? A movie?” Well, no matter how creative, talented or fun you might be, sometimes you just find yourself trapped in one boring and predictable date.

Well, if you are taking a woman out and want to impress her, show her something new.... full story