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Online dating: Should we do away with the weight question
Has the weight question on your online dating profile affected your dating?
Even though two thirds of Americans are obese or overweight, most plus size singles – women especially - say their weight gets in their way of dating - even those who aren’t ashamed of it and state it clearly on... full story
Do unconventional love tricks bring couples closer?
Ever gotten in a stupid fight with your spouse just to get attention? Raise your hand if you tell blatant lies like “Hon, you are still as sexy as the first time I met you” just to boost your partner’s self confidence. Oh… and don’t get me started with the flirting that makes your blood... full story
Found that perfect one? Make it last forever
It’s the holiday season. May be you will bump into that perfect one somewhere while enjoying your holiday. And if you already have that perfect love, how can you make it last forever?
First thing is to remain positive. Even when an argument arises or you are talking about each other’s problems,... full story
Color-blind racism?
“I have never hooked up with someone of my own race before!”
The above statement seems ‘beyond race’. It somehow makes the people who make such statements seem like they are beyond the influence of racial stereotyping and racist ideologies. Is this the case?
Being an interracial... full story
Does her earning more affect your sex life?
Most men grapple with figuring out where their place is when their women bring home much of the bacon… including in the bedroom.
When some men find themselves with women who make more money than they do, much as they would love to make more, naturally, they are fine with the situation... full story
Strip clubs, porn and you
She broke up with him because of the other women in his life. Only the girls know these women are the infamous cyber porn queens. “I thought I was special to him. When I caught him, it felt like he was cheating on me.”
As we all know, the porn industry has been growing at an alarming rate... full story
Are black women the only opponents of interracial relationships?
Warning: This article may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The article is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons.
“Some black guys are going to date white girls. Attempting to beat up the white girls will not turn that tide. …You’d... full story
Marriage license denied to Louisiana interracial couple. Judge refuses to resign
Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, refuses to issue a Hammond, Louisiana interracial couple - Beth Humphrey (White) and Terence McKay (Black) - with a marriage license. Who would have thought that such things would still be happening to interracial couples in this age and era?... full story
Do black girls really need black barbies?
EL SEGUNDO, Calif. - (Business Wire) Mattel® announced… the launch of So In Style™, a new line of black dolls by Barbie® featuring more authentic-looking facial features such as fuller lips, a wider nose, more distinctive cheek bones and curlier hair. So In Style™ (S.I.S.™) was developed... full story
Should parents call attention to race with their children?
“Remember, everybody’s equal.” This is what one woman kept telling her 5-year-old son. She thought she was getting the message across until the day -after seven months of her repetitive phrase - the boy asked, “Mommy, what’s ‘equal’ mean?”
This... full story
Loving in parents’ shadow
Ever found yourself doing the very things your mother or father did – even those things you promised yourself that you would never ever do?
In her book “Women Who Love Too Much”, Robin Norwood argues that human beings learn how to love or accept love by observing their parents... full story
White men are least attracted to Black women?
…gender is one of the determining factors of interracial dating trends. Caucasian females are least likely to date Asian men, whilst white males in the U.S tend to be least attracted to female African American’s. - ‘Interracial Dating Trends’ by Matt Dating
Much as... full story
Of sex: Are you denying yourself a full life?
We think sex, talk sex… But just like love, sex is still one of the things most of us have a problem decoding… especially when it involves totally pleasing the other person and you getting maximum satisfaction.
Many have settled for less just so the other person can get pleasure. Many... full story
Melting pot metaphor explained…
We usually go on and on about America being a “melting pot”. Question is: What do we really mean? Well this is what Catherine in an article The Great Melting Pot: “Edging” Us out within Interracial Families had to say:
We just don’t seem to realize the truth of... full story
What’s the story behind mismatched couples?
Why are those two together?
Everyone knows at least one couple that makes that question escape their breath. Great guy and a bi*** from hell, good mannered gal with some ill-mannered ghetto boy, beauty and beast …you just can’t understand what kind of drug or hypnosis one of them was on... full story
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Interracial dating: Can we really shelve race?
Most of us like to think we are beyond race. We like to see our interracial relationships in a race-free vacuum. This is not the case with Cl; an Asian... full story
Emotional vs sexual infidelity - Which is a greater sin?
Most women have emotional affairs. Most guys have sexual affairs. Both types of cheating cause feelings of jealousy and hurt in the other spouse.
According... full story
Worst valentines gifts – Can you top these?
What’s the worst gift you’ve ever received on Valentines day? Better luck in that department this year. Happy Valentines Day to you... full story
People love Kimora and Djimon
Unlike the uproar about the cover of Essence magazine, February issue, people have really embraced the cover models of next month’s issue... full story
Marriage has a chance after all
I know of people who have refused to commit to the women they love for fear of divorce. Look at celebrities like Angelina Jolie and Halle Berry. Much... full story
Essence reader calls cover model a white supremacist
The February issue of Essence Magazine: Black Men, Love & Relationships, has Reggie Bush, the NFL player who is in an interracial relationship... full story
Online dating: Should we do away with the weight question
Has the weight question on your online dating profile affected your dating?
Even though two thirds of Americans are obese or overweight, most... full story
Do unconventional love tricks bring couples closer?
Ever gotten in a stupid fight with your spouse just to get attention? Raise your hand if you tell blatant lies like “Hon, you are still as sexy as... full story
Found that perfect one? Make it last forever
It’s the holiday season. May be you will bump into that perfect one somewhere while enjoying your holiday. And if you already have that perfect love,... full story
Color-blind racism?
“I have never hooked up with someone of my own race before!”
The above statement seems ‘beyond race’. It somehow makes the people who... full story
Does her earning more affect your sex life?
Most men grapple with figuring out where their place is when their women bring home much of the bacon… including in the bedroom.
When... full story
Strip clubs, porn and you
She broke up with him because of the other women in his life. Only the girls know these women are the infamous cyber porn queens. “I thought I was... full story
Are black women the only opponents of interracial relationships?
Warning: This article may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The article is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties,... full story
Marriage license denied to Louisiana interracial couple. Judge refuses to resign
Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, refuses to issue a Hammond, Louisiana interracial couple - Beth Humphrey (White) and Terence... full story
Do black girls really need black barbies?
EL SEGUNDO, Calif. - (Business Wire) Mattel® announced… the launch of So In Style™, a new line of black dolls by Barbie® featuring more... full story





