Online dating profile photos – The don’ts

Having been to various online dating sites, I think there are a few things I have learned by scanning through hundreds of profiles of eligible spinsters … and bachelors (not that am into guys but you know, some things are usually so off that you cant help browsing through the profile just to understand... full story

Black women on interracial unions

We have seen the rise in of interracial relationships over the past twenty-five years but still there are any people who remain harsh critics of mixed unions.

Before - in the middle of the Twentieth Century - parents of Caucasian women seemed to be heavily against the idea of an interracial... full story

Complaint about mold infestation breeds racial remarks

When you complain to your landlord about a mold infestation and she turns it into some racial thingy, how would you react?

Well, an interracial couple in Ontario had to challenge their landlord over a letter in which a mold complaint was answered with racial references. Vincent and Rebecca... full story

3 minute sex is sufficient research confirms

“Break me off, show me what you got, Coz I don’t want no one minute man”

Remember Missy Elliott & Trina saying they don’t want a minute man while Ludacris says he isn’t a minute man and can make the sex last in Missy’s hip hop single “One Minute Man”?... full story

The metamorphosis of online dating

Just when i thought I had seen it all, I came across this one:

“Dating Cheating Wives is your ultimate site to find lonely, horny, married women looking for discreet sex on the side!”

Would you? Is this pushing the whole online dating business just a little too far? What... full story

Life is no walk on the beach. So why should dating be?

I was going on my normal business – looking for a topic to blog about. Then I got interested in this particular line: “Dating isn’t fair to men”. I really had to know why.

Well two reasons actually made me really feel that dating could actually be unfair to we men.

1. Well, there... full story

Your spouse’s awful friends

You are dating this pretty cool someone who is sweet and attentive. You like this someone a lot and can see yourselves becoming a solid couple …long-term. Much as everything is perfect, there is only one hitch … his or her friends.

Your almost perfect other always tells you “You’re... full story

Love on the rails

Internet dating, speed dating, singles parties … these cant outdo what Germans are doing with public transportation sevices … they are becoming matchmakers and the demand has been overwhelming.

If you are a Berlin commuter, then say good bye to curses like “I should have talked to... full story

Post-coital blues

Even the greatest sex can end in post-coital blues.

A dude, 33 years of age has them. Majority of times, he feels depressed after having sex with a chic. No matter how great the sex might have been, once he goes limp, he feels depressed and can’t wait to get away from her. And immediately... full story

Interracial dating: What makes black men lose their mind?

Well the above is a title of some radio show on blogtalkradio.com.

Which leads to my questions: Why do people always try to find fault in black men dating interracially? Seriously people, is interracial dating seen as losing the mind really?

Your views are welcome.

Tags: multicultural... full story

Is interracial dating in Minnesota really one-sided?

“A black woman wonders: What’s up with the Minnesota dating game?”

This was a headline for an article written 3 years ago. And the woman is still wondering…

This woman is concerned about couples comprising black men and white women being so predominant. Many... full story

Ghosts from the past

What do you do when un-summoned ghosts from your past relationships come back to haunt?

Roger, a friend of mine, got an email from Sally (a woman from his past) … out of the blue … after 5 years of total communication blackout. This was after trying so hard to make the long distance relationship... full story

Would you tell the new person you are dating?

Just when she felt she was ready to play the dating field again, this lady found out she has herpes. They say honesty is the best policy and has gone through ‘the conversation’ (of telling the man she meets next) a million times. The thing is she feels she should squeal on the first date If he... full story

Would you marry someone who doesn’t want to have sex with you?

You have been going out with your boyfriend or girlfriend and all is great. Except for one problem … No Sex!

Well a few months after Jane and Eugene started dating, they had sex. Suddenly however, Eugene would stop in the middle of a serious making-out session. Jane really wondered what was... full story

Who is responsible for VH1 stereotyping black women?

Try tuning into VH1’s ‘Flavor of Love’ or its spin offs: ‘I Love New York’ and ‘Flavor of Love: Charm School’. These are some hilarious reality TV shows. But don’t the stereotypes of black women baffle you - booty shaking, potty mouthed, lascivious women? Is this really what people... full story