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Do mixed race adolescents behave badly?

There are some bad adolescent behaviors that whites do more than blacks (like drinking and smoking), and there are other bad adolescent behaviors that blacks do more than whites (watching TV, fighting, getting sexually transmitted diseases). Mixed-race kids manage to be as bad as whites on the white behaviors and as bad as blacks on the black behaviors. Mixed-race kids act out in almost every way …

Steven D. Levitt, “The Plight of Mixed Race Adolescents” Freakonomics blog... full story

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Can we divorce prejudice from dating preference?

Whenever one tries to explain why they prefer dating someone from a different race, they end up sounding prejudicial; not only to their own race but at times to the race of preference. Take the example of this white man trying to explain why he prefers dating Asian women:

“I find Asian women very attractive. The Asian features, black hair, slender builds, golden skin, and Asian eyes are extremely appealing to me … The Asian women I have dated were extremely loyal.”

The above... full story

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Online Dating: To tell the whole truth or not

Most men largely prefer young, thin women. Most women prefer tall, successful men. And when it comes to online dating, the odds of being contacted if you don’t ‘fit the cut’ are much slimmer. Is it really in your best interests to tell the truth if more than 75% of the online daters will dismiss you for doing so? This is one of the greatest dilemmas that face millions of online daters each day.

If I am a man who is below 5’2”, I know, if I tell the truth, my chances of getting... full story

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Wooing any woman any time

What is the best course of seduction from the first impression to the morning after? Here are some stages of seduction according to 1000 women.

Asking her out: Being quirky but cute wont cut it. Only 7% of the women interviewed wanted to be asked out by way of a note or mix CD. The best way to ask a woman out is to be straight forward; like with a phone call or conversation. “I think you are amazing. We should do dinner sometime. Is Friday ok with you?” However, avoid coming... full story

More rumination on interracial relationships

I was hanging out at my female friend’s place some time back and I couldn’t help but notice that every woman I met there (starting from her mum and aunt (who are Black) to my pal and her cousins (who are mixed race) were either in a relationship with or married to a White man. Somehow, the topic of President Obama stole its way into our conversations.

Apparently, they are all fond of him largely because he is married to a dark-skinned Black woman. I found this rather strange... full story

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How do you ask for the sex you want?

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Most women find it hard to talk about sex in general let alone ask for the kind of sex they want. Maybe it’s because they don’t have adequate education about sexuality, maybe they just lack the language to discuss sex. Maybe they have self esteem issues, or they just assume it’s the duty of... full story

Interracial couple kissing churns stomachs

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“The 7 Best Places to Smooch” was one of the stories on the 10th April cover of GO! magazine and to go along with it was this photo of an interracial couple kissing. Well, that photo ended up generating a lot of queasiness in many – evidenced by reader comments of the online version - simply... full story

Black women. Black men. Best frenemies.

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I have to agree there is a large number of loving couples within the black community. That aside, we still have a crisis within black relationships. For eons on end, black women and black men have been at each others necks … still are. They experience this when trying to date, marry and... full story

Black women have no option?

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Warning: This post may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The post is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons. It is simply meant to find out what people think about black white dating.

In a bid to explain why Black women get upset about Black... full story

Why are more men turning down sex lately?

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First of all, are men even allowed to turn down sex?

The first time man said “No” to a woman brought forth a lot of questioning and hypothesizing – Am I not attractive enough? Is he gay? Something I said? For years men have dependably wanted sex and we aren’t known for the “not-tonight”... full story

Can sex with a stranger be intimate?

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The guru Dr. Ruth Westheimer writes about improving intimacy, which is a key ingredient for sexual satisfaction.

Two strangers can’t really be intimate, no matter what they do together sexually, because while their bodies may be joined, they’re emotionally and mentally disconnected…... full story

Attitudes towards Valentine’s day

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Valentine’s day is here again… a day that can make or break your relationship. Most men have been found guilty of either forgetting or even ignoring this day while some have sent Valentines to women who had no idea the men had crushes on them. So, how should you start this day?

2 in 5... full story

Do we ever learn?

A woman grows up witnessing an abusive marriage between her parents which leaves the whole family miserable. She finally leaves home and meets this guy. As their relationship builds up, she sees flashes of violence in him, maybe even been struck once or twice. She knows she should run, but for some... full story

Interracial or same race relationships?

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Halle Berry, President Barack Obama … both are mixed race Americans. However, the media and most Americans see them as Black. But if memory serves me well, they are both half-white.

Most of us have chosen not to see President Obama’s marriage to Michelle as an interracial marriage.... full story

Dating dangerously

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They used to say we want what we can’t have. But when it comes to dating, these days people are going after it and getting it. And the once taboo relationships are now the most successful. Since to your brain, danger and attraction are the same thing, let me share with you how to protect yourself... full story

The seven compartments of women

There are seven compartments that men place women in… and it’s very rare for a woman to graduate from one room to the next. Well, here is why I thought of this:

My pal Janice has been having an affair with some guy Allan for quite a while now. Well, these two have been together the whole... full story

Is marriage for white people?

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Warning: The above question may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The question is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons. It is simply meant to find out why statistics about marriage are the way they are.

“Marriage is for white people”,... full story

Do women prefer polyandry to monogamy?

Want to know why females tend to have multiple partners?

Well, an international study by British and Japanese researchers from the Universities of Exeter (UK), Okayama (Japan) and Liverpool (UK) says that females evolved to mate with more partners to avoid producing offspring carrying the... full story

Interracial dating and black men

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What do people really think of the Black man? Low! This video is such an inspiration. It shows us what we think of the Black man and what really is! I mean, even the Black men underrate themselves. I mean, do we really think Black men are soooo anti-education?

Well, truth be told, lets... full story

How to turn that predictable date into an unforgettable escapade

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“Why am I on this boring date?” Yawn! “What next? A movie?” Well, no matter how creative, talented or fun you might be, sometimes you just find yourself trapped in one boring and predictable date.

Well, if you are taking a woman out and want to impress her, show her something new.... full story

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Do mixed race adolescents behave badly?

There are some bad adolescent behaviors that whites do more than blacks (like drinking and smoking), and there are other bad adolescent behaviors that... full story

The erection and matters of the male heart

Men who have trouble getting up could be having issues of heart. Not the mushy kind of issues … the physical stuff. (I know I almost got you ladies.)

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Dating someone in the meantime?

“Never take a part-time job because it will become your full-time life.” – Pablo Picasso

Do you have these friends who have never been... full story

Can we divorce prejudice from dating preference?

Whenever one tries to explain why they prefer dating someone from a different race, they end up sounding prejudicial; not only to their own race but... full story

Nice girls vs. ice queens

Why does the sweet girl-next-door always lose out to the drama queen?

Paired together, men always rush for the b**chy babe but not primarily... full story

Online Dating: To tell the whole truth or not

Most men largely prefer young, thin women. Most women prefer tall, successful men. And when it comes to online dating, the odds of being contacted if... full story

Wooing any woman any time

What is the best course of seduction from the first impression to the morning after? Here are some stages of seduction according to 1000 women.

Asking... full story

More rumination on interracial relationships

I was hanging out at my female friend’s place some time back and I couldn’t help but notice that every woman I met there (starting from... full story

How do you ask for the sex you want?

Most women find it hard to talk about sex in general let alone ask for the kind of sex they want. Maybe it’s because they don’t have adequate education... full story

Interracial couple kissing churns stomachs

“The 7 Best Places to Smooch” was one of the stories on the 10th April cover of GO! magazine and to go along with it was this photo of an interracial... full story

Married but never in love. Stay or go?

The other day, a friend of mine confessed that all the while she’s been married; she has never been in love with her husband. She only did it because... full story

Black women. Black men. Best frenemies.

I have to agree there is a large number of loving couples within the black community. That aside, we still have a crisis within black relationships.... full story

When you cant quit your marriage

Making the decision to end a marriage is a hard choice on its own – or so I thought. Now imagine making that decision and not being able to follow... full story

Black women have no option?

Warning: This post may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The post is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups... full story

Why are more men turning down sex lately?

First of all, are men even allowed to turn down sex?

The first time man said “No” to a woman brought forth a lot of questioning and hypothesizing... full story