My ethnicity is | Black/Latino |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Wise215, Man, 53 |
Location | Washington, District of Columbia, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 35 - 40, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/Latino |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
46 no kids, (too many god children), I'll get married when I find someone that I want to marry but until then happiness is a prerequisite and being able to communicate. If I'm not happy then I'm not getting married, doing it once for the long haul no divorce option... Hopefully.
Likes:
Traveling (working on 2nd passport), outside the us, preferably islands, scuba diving, cruises, skier, tennis, muy thai(kick boxing), a lil' horseback riding, salsa(taking lessons), movies, volunteerism/mentoring, I may run a 5k here and there, listening to old people share their wisdom. Neo soul and old r&b trying to learn how to hand dance.
Dislikes:
Dishonest people, stress, mentally weak black men, let me
Elaborate... Black men that have spread negative stereotypes, women that think all men are the same... We are but it's not my fault! Lol
Women that don't have a spiritual walk. The belief that all black men are gay, married or in jail. I have 5 close friends, none married, gay or have ever been locked up and all make 6 figures. Actually 2 are married now... Sorry... And one dude may be on the dl... Sorry man, let's just say, "you don't know someone until you travel with them." dude was just acting real peculiar. Lastly... I'm spontaneous and I like a woman that's stable and secure with herself. I trust a woman will tell me what I need to know... If I ask a question and I can't handle the answer then that's my problem but I'll trust the woman to be honest with me even if she hurts me. Honesty is more important than lying. Quotes I heard and love:
"you have to be in love with yourself to understand how to love someone else."
"just because someone has given up on their dreams, don't let them convince you to give up on yours."
"the happiest people don't have to best of everything, they just make the best out of everything they have."
"if you're the most successful person in your immediate group of friends/associates... You're in the wrong group."
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God determines who walks into your life, it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay and who you refuse to let go. I've learned to navigate away from drama negativity and pessimism if for some reason you lose contact with me its on purpose. Lol sorry if it was sounds really arrogant I'm just really happy with my blessings and where life is placed me. I'm in a good place I want to share but I'm not in no hurry. Lastly... I'm a clown, I'm the guy that you can't believe did that!
I am looking for
I'm a positive person... I like laughin and I will make it my priority to keep you laughin and happy. Life is too short for anything else as a priority. I really want children... That's the last stage of my life that's been unfulfilled. Just to come home and hear "daddy!"... Wow, what man, father, husband wouldn't want that. I told my mom I wanted children and she said, "get a dog!" so I rescued a puppy so maybe that desire will subside. Anyway... Until then I'm not missing every opportunity to see something new... Maybe children is not in cards for me... I don't know. I want children with the right person, let me say that. I would rather date a woman without children but at my age... That's a tough requirement. A woman asked me, "R... What are you looking for?" I told her I want chemistry... If we have chemistry that's a start. You can't fake that, I want a woman that wants to be with me just as much as I want to be with her.