My ethnicity is | White/Mixed/Other |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Vamanomaly, Man, 54 |
Location | Milledgeville, Georgia, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 25 - 40, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | White/Mixed/Other |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
NOTICE I SUBSCRIBED FOR ONE MONTH STARTING AT 7 AM 2/25/2011. Lets see where this goes...
I have an addictive personality once I let you inside my my brain housing group. For astrology people I'm an Aquarius / Dog.
I dont have much of a problem changing something you dont like once you are in my world either. Within reason. Open for discussion.
Well I put multi-racial up there because my mother is Italian. For all intents and purposes you can call me white.
I have a southern US accent. Some hate it. Some love it. Take your pick.
I read faces alot. Alot of you people look miserable. Take my following quote to heart...
"Stop looking for love... So it can find you."
At this point in checking out the site. I hate drama of all sorts, and will try to do my best to avoid / resolve it. I have a headstrong mindset when it comes to certain things. I cuss. I smoke. I drink a lil bit.
Ill tell you what I think. I'm sometimes selfish. I'm very funny and much much more. Ive learned these types of things as ive been thru the lessons of life...
I admit I smoke too much and should probably take better care of myself, I'm working on it. I will also never do my bad habits around you if it bothers you. Slang and double negatives are a second language for me. Why People ask? I say because its REAL. Like I said I might be a used car but I'm dependable and you wont get any surprise charges.
Do I make the perfect guy? Hell no. Could these things I posted get me less interested women? Most likely.
Id rather be up front now then the guy that tries to be "mr perfect" and says a bunch of crap just to get responses / dates and hes the complete opposite.
What am I lookin for? Youll be the first one to know if I find it. Oh and ladies... If I show some interest with a response of some sort, dont be a prude. If you arent interested tell me to get lost. It aint hard. I'ma big boy I can handle it.
Note I'm a homebody and most comfortable in my lair. I can be just as fun as anyone but I enjoy not being someone that spends 70% or more out of their home.
Also ladies have a pic and have more than ONE pic... Please leave religion out of your quest to find the perfect partner. There are religious sites to meet "god fearing" people.
Im not an atheist or anything but I see alot of prospective partners that are TOO hung up on religion.
I love video games. Its been my passion since I was a child. Dont make bad assumptions though I love personal space and I love to also GIVE my woman her space too ( time alone, time with her girls etc ).
I can be raw with my humor sometimes but I know when to act right. I'ma joker and LOVE making people laugh. Allot say they do but I thrive on it.
I can be romantic when needed to the point where a director could make a chick flick about it.
I realize that when you are getting to know each other you must allow for weeks or even months to go by as you decide if their mannerisms are going to be tolerable. Like I said theres plenty of beautiful women for a great guy like me out there and I TOTALLY understand If a woman isnt feeling it.
At times I can be the best ear for your words. Like everyone I too have my flaws and have made mistakes in life and arent afraid to talk about them. Honesty, Devotion and Loyalty especially is important to me, because with those things, love blossoms.
I will be updating my account soon to at least show my awesomeness to the world, so If ive hit you up with an interest Id love to talk to you. If I commit to someone Its deep and solid. No other woman can take me from you. ALLOT of men will say crap like that but after reading the above text, theres no reason for me to front.
Trust me ladies, you want a person thats REAL and makes you feel something be it, mental, physical, emotional or all three.
Take things I say with a grain a salt, sometimes my confidence shows stronger than others. Ill fight for you. Ill hold you if you need it.
Not a big fan of having allot of animals. 1 dog and / or 1 cat for example is acceptable. 4 cats, a snake pen and 5 dogs outside is not.
I thrive on being empowered by the woman that cares about me. It enables me to do and say things I probably couldnt or wouldnt sometimes.
Also I dont need or want your money. I can take care of myself. I dont like to travel. While I would go anywhere I'm not really considered a traveling person. Id like a woman as close to where I live as possible, although I can make exceptions if I feel like it.
I am looking for
Well... Youll know when I find out. Like everyone I have a preference. If I'm pursuing something on a more serious level, then its most likely my preference. I think it would be easier If I told you what I'm NOT looking for instead.
Women that are too young AND have children, like say 20 or so : Sorry, but my experience shows me they lack the maturity for a serious relationship and usually try to use me. Also women half my age, while pleasing to the eye have usually been bad for the heart.
Overly possessive women : If you have to know what I'm doing 24 / 7 then you have trust issues. If I'm instilling in you a sense of foul play, then I'm not the guy for you.
Women with bad chemical habits : Yes I know this is hypocritical but women that smoke and drink regularly are a turn off, however it is tolerable as long as she doesnt have a smoke in her hand everytime I look at her. Drinking everyday or even more than a few times a week means you need to go to AA.
Not into larger women partnership-wise. Just being up front.
This is my preference.
This isnt to say that I wouldnt date a woman listed in my above "rules" but its my general formula. I have say for instance dated a much younger woman with a 2 yr old before.
I find mixed women to be a turn on. On this site I'm scoping it and always search for black mixed with asian ladies as my main preference. Of course like I said above if I show you some interest, message you etc, it means youve done something to hold my attention. I woulndt rule out for example a white woman If I was feeling it.
I want a woman to be just that a WOMAN, I dont like women that act too masculine, act too ghetto, etc. I prefer a woman that is effeminate and a bit shy. This doesnt mean weak and its ok to be a strong woman mind you.
Also dont play games with me. Dont try to scam me. Ive had allot of women from certain places send me instructions on how to collect allot of money from a bank and all that blah blah.
Even though I'm not too keen on dating someone with young children please list ( if you have any ) how MANY childen you have and their ages.
Lastly, dont try and find the perfect man. He doesnt exist. An acceptable mate does though. If you dont understand that statement, think harder.
Anything else just ask.