My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Trueblue79, Woman, 45 |
Location | McMinnville, Oregon, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 27 - 40, East Indian/Pacific Islander/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I work hard and I play harder. I have strong convictions and yet am very open-minded and always rediscovering myself. I'm easy-going (which means we'll never fight about putting the toilet seat down), loyal to the core (no games, no drama, not afraid of commitment), try to follow the golden rule (make love not war). I believe in peace, love, tolerance and generosity. Love is my religion ~ Ziggy Marley. I have been in love a few times and I have broken hearts and have had my heart broken. Those experiences have taught me to love myself, follow my instincts, listen to both my head and my heart equally. I am a cancer survivor which is weird and cool at the same time. Enduring 1 1/2 years of treatment has really shown me that I am a strong woman. It also taught me about humility (I was too prideful), accepting help from others (it's good to let people into your world), unconditional love (my mom never left my side), the pleasures of simplicity (dumped my loser boyfriend), letting go of the past (forgiveness) and appreciating the here & now (tomorrow is not guaranteed).
I like laughing (cheesy movie stunts and extremely rude people make me laugh), dancing (but I'm not quitting my day job), sleeping (insomnia stinks), the sunshine (so energizing), summer nights (my favorite time of year/day), good food (not afraid to clean my plate in front of you), bargains (it's like a small victory), the smell of a newborn baby (it's like breathing in new life), chai tea lattes (my favorite hot drink of all-time), horchata (my favorite cold drink of all-time), reading (you can travel the world and re-discover yourself), big cities (so much diversity).
I am passionate about music (I really like Fort Minor, Gabriel Rios, Taio Cruz, The Dave Matthews Band, Matisyahu, anything with good bass), sweets (major sweet tooth), learning about other cultures and the world, spoiling my family, adventure (I've been skydiving, ultra-lighting and cliff diving) and traveling (anywhere!).
My favorite activities are bike rides, yoga/tai chi, hanging out in downtown Portland, cooking/baking, get-together with friends, traveling (weekend getaways can really re-charge the batteries), afternoon naps in the park, playing cards.
"It's time to start living the life you've imagined" ~ Henry James.
I am looking for
I'm looking for a strong man (both physically and emotionally), loyal, compassionate, ambitious, adventurous, wants a family, loves to travel, intelligence without arrogance, strives to be the best version of himself, compatible sense of humor, good hygiene (non-negotiable), attractive (which is totally subjective however I am a fan of both the tall and dark), loves and appreciates his family, has experienced life (either through relationships or travel or education), loves me for me and isn't afraid to shout it to the world!!!
Major deal breakers are baby momma drama (step kids = cool, crazy exs = not cool), online gamers, smokers (I didn't survive breast cancer to die from second-hand smoke), heavy drinkers, players (we can see it in your eyes), macho men, being close-minded, super social butterflies (would you really have time for me?), obesity (yes, I said the thing most people won't say), being hot-tempered.
Even though this is a dating site, if the chemistry is not there then we have only gained a friend :-)