My ethnicity is | Mixed |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Tr3asure, Woman, 54 |
Location | Bedford, Texas, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 45 - 55, Pacific Islander/Latino/Mixed... |
My ethnicity is | Mixed |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Yes, I do have a long profile. Although I won't apologize for the length of it, I will say that it's okay if you do not finish reading it - I'll understand... :0) I only seek One, not many
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Preface to the movie Dangerous Beauty:
"Venice, 1583 - the richest, most decadent city in Europe.
Its women were treated like property - few even knew how to read.
But there were some who enjoyed a different fate...."
Excerpt:
-Confession of Veronica Franco, a Venetian Courtesan, to the Inquisition-
"I confess I find more ecstasy in passion, than in prayer; such passion is prayer...
I confess...I confess I pray still to feel the touch of my lovers lips, his hands upon me, his arms enfolding me...such surrender has been mine...
I confess I hunger still to be filled and enflamed...to melt into the dream of
us, beyond this troubled place...
To where we are not even ourselves...
To know that always...always, this is mine..."
And now more about me, lol... Got coffee..?
I'm originally from Queens, New York. I grew up in a predominantly Jewish neighborhood, however my friendship circle was diverse, just as NY is. I have maintained friendships with many I grew up with. Years later, when it was time to find a new 'home' I chose Texas - or rather it chose me, back in '03. I have family here, and although it hasn't been all roses and smooth-sailing I CAN say that it's been infinitely better than NY ever was, on GOOD day. :0) I do miss three things about NY: the history, diners, and mass transit..!
I'm all about DIY projects around the house; if I'm not dirty when it's done then I didn't do it right, lol.. When I do something it's full-on 100% of my focus and energy; I don't half-ass anything... I love being in the kitchen, and occasionally entertain. I adore my felines, Kai and Kisa, am passionate about photography (especially Black 'n Whites), BBQ's, Greek/Mediterranean/Ethnic foods, home cooked meals made with love, seafood, red wine, dark chocolate, collecting gargoyles, dining out, music, movies, ANYthing historical, museums, camping, nights under the starry skies, the esoteric, and more... I love day/weekend trips, and the beach... I'm not into the bar or club scene, or having a 'girls night out' - that's not me, at all... My evenings are for my significant other, and if we want to go out, or stay in I am fine with either/or... (old fashioned, right..? lol, yes, exactly) I will also mention that I am tattooed/pierced, and clearly have NO problem with my S.O. having either/or...
I'm romantic, a realist, sometimes too literal for my own good, a liberal, a conservative, an idealist, an optimist, a traditionalist and more. They're all a part of my individuality; my "balance". Although I wouldn't classify myself as religious, I am very spiritual, and my faith always sustains and lifts me up.
This year marked a turning point for me, DNA wise... Turns out there's more to my ancestry than I could have imagined - all of it wonderful, and some of it very surprising.! It's really gratifying, and reinforces, the belief I have that my Ancestors speak to me in more ways than through appearance - things that were previously inexplicable through logic, now made perfect sense because I know WHO I come from...
I've been very fortunate to have been able to travel to amazing places throughout my life... For the bikers out there - while I appreciate beautiful motorcycles, I have to say I do not share your passion for riding them, sorry...
#1 Pet Peeve: Inconsistency
If you have to Google 'D/s' it may not be for you (but who knows, I've been wrong before) ;0)
I am looking for
I'm attracted to Dominant Gentlemen (D/s), and while I seek a relationship, I'm not in a rush to be in one.
It's about 'soul food', not eye candy. I take commitment and monogamy seriously, and I know the difference between what I want, and need. The devotion, loyalty - investment of time, energy. In the past I've done all the pampering, the giving, and received nothing but ingratitude and more expectation in return. Not anymore. Now it's time to find the one who will give me what I deserve, and I to him. -direct look- I might be a tad high-strung (read: passionate, intense, NOT dramatic), but I'm definitely not high-maintenance; please, know the difference. ;)
This man is patient, and willing to establish strong communication and clarity before meeting in person. I need a man who not only enjoys talking, but understands the value and importance OF communicating. Neither one of us are mind readers - he means what he says, and says what he means - zero ambiguity.
The Dominant man I'm looking for is explicitly self-aware, experienced, and very comfortable with his role in life. He's confident, and understands taking charge, or control, isn't about ego, arrogance or being domineering. Respect – for himself and others, being honorable and honest, as well as having integrity and values, are ingrained at the core of his foundation. He is NOT intimidated by a strong woman, and stands firm in his beliefs and philosophies, while keeping an open mind to those of others. He's protective, romantic and has a penchant for being wonderfully, maddeningly, unpredictable and spontaneous. He is intelligent, funny, subtly, yet clearly possessive in public, and extremely thorough. *warm smile*
I seek a 'Champion' who will 'Treasure' our relationship - it isn't only about him or I, individually, but about US, together...