My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed/Other |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | ThySecrtGrdn, Woman, 41 |
Location | Queens, New York, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 40, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed/Other |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
"I want to read your mind... Know your deepest feelings. I want to make it right for you. Baby show me. Let me share the mystery, oh! Come on come on come on come on... Listen to your heart tonight."- The Secret Garden
I like:
Balance
Stability
Reliability
People who use their mind and their heart
Real intimacy
Monogamy
Reading
A dry sense of humor
A little kink
Meeting people when they are "drrssed down" (mmm sweatpants)
A phone call
Face-to-face interaction
Affectionate but not smothering
Michael Jackson
Red wine
Being seduced
The smells of Jasmine snd lavender
Beards
Nerdiness
Cuddling
Going on a random adventure with my sidekick
Live music
Sharing food
I dislike:
Loud mouths
Hoeish males
Stalkers
A lack of self control
Excessive materialism
An ugly heart, mind and or soul
Flings/FWB
Jealousy
Clinginess
Make up
Pretty boyness
Lil Wayne (and anyone else who co-signs on the mentality reflected in his songs)
Moving too damn fast
Someone who focuses too much on looks
Someone who is easily manipulated or swayed
Tbc...
I am looking for
Some of this is covered in my about me. Sorry I don't like following the rules all the time.
PS I'm sorry but men old enough to be my father don't do it for me. I am a cougar in training. Thank you much. Lol JK... Kind of
PATIENCE. People's perpetual impatience is why I do NOTmind being single and will WAIT for the "right" kind of relationship. Just because I might not respond to a text for a few hours diesn't mean I am ignoring you and or trying to neglect you. I simply might be busy. This microwave instant gratification society we currently live in seems to have made people forget that not that long ago you would have to WAIT for someone to return your call. Good things come to those who wait.
Will trust me and can be trusted. Just because I go out alone sometimes doesn't mean I am looking for trouble. Why would I do that within the confines of a relationship when I don't activly look for trouble now as a single person? Please don't let insecurities rule your logic and actions.
Affectionate but not clingy.
Not too hard and not too soft (like Boyz II Men!)
Respects himself and others.
A sharp mind and a sharp (yet tactful) tongue is about as sexy as it gets for me. If you are a pretty male mannequin but have the brain power of an paramecium., I will bang you with my eyes but probably lose interest quickly.
Sarcastic, witty humor is a turn on too.