My ethnicity is | Black/Latino |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Nickname | Sophistikate, Woman, 41 |
Location | Chicago, Illinois, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 28 - 45, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/Latino |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
How would you describe yourself?
Hello Wow... There is so much I can say in such a tiny box.
To start, I love a good convo. If you love to make people smile&have a mature sense of humor then i'm your girl. Life is to short to hold grudges & I want to surround myself with positive people. Those who are willing to listen&those who are willing to teach (hopefully he will be a good teacher). One thing that I admire about myself; i'm versatile. I am more of a home body. Staying home with family&friends (pets included). Club type? Nope but sometimes doing things outside of the house is a plus. Dinner, museums, art shows, antique shopping, zoos, walks in the park. I am willing to try new things... Don't laugh but I want to learn how to golf. I am left handed & those who have tried to teach me get frustrated. There are so many things that I would love to do its just finding the right company to do it with. Now I will admit, I know that I am in the under 30 group but I am conscious of how I would like to look at 50. Sooo... I have been working out (yay for me) &watching what I eat. (so hard) & I would love to find a workout partner. Sophistication & sexiness is a form of beauty that should be displayed inside and out. Hoping to find someone who can handle and appreciate it.
I am looking for
A guy who isn't afraid to express his feelings. I know that there is this "pride" thing that sometimes goes on with the guys. Totally understandable because we are all human. But... There is a time when communication must be a strong factor within two people. I prefer for my "ideal" mate to understand that friendship, feelings, respect, & communication goes hand & hand. It takes a foundation of many qualities (yes there are some that are good and bad) to attract something deeper than visual. I have low tolerance for shallowness & arrogance. Now on the the good stuff! He must have a sense of humor. PLEEEAASSE. Hopefully he will be patient, willing to learn, and doesn't mind me cracking jokes on him. Quiet&boring bores me. I'm not a big sports fan but I can learn to like it. (I guess) I can deal with his sports/manliness as long as he can remember that there are things a woman needs; such as quality time. A fella who is open-minded, loves family and isn't embarrassed by affection. Taking pride in his health & appearance, with a touch of confidence is sexy. (I work out so I would like if he did SOMETHING to accelerate his heart rate. I am like any other human being, I do have my preferences but conversation and personality plays a huge role. I just hope to meet those who love to smile