My ethnicity is | Black/Latino |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | SofiaO, Woman, 52 |
Location | Cincinnati, Ohio, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 39 - 47, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black/Latino |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
Greetings, I am a petite, confident and compassionate woman, who is also intelligent, stylish, charismatic, empathetic, bilingual and kind. I'm beautiful inside and out! It's funny, because most people think I'm in my early to mid twenties which is hilarious to me. I attribute my youthful looks to healthy, positive living and I will continue to do so. I believe in respecting all people, and some of the many things that I value are justice, equity, advocacy, friendship, trust, commitment, diversity, family, faith, spirituality and love.
I enjoy yoga, reading, writing, folk art (particularly art detailing the lives of people of color), dancing, playing scrabble (yes scrabble!), traveling, and embracing new and different experiences. I am very honest, compassionate and passionate woman, but I don't share my passion(s) with everyone. Because I love and respect myself, I can do the same for others. I have no desire to engage in games, drama, or unhealthy (emotionally, physically or psychologically) relationships. I am blessed to be the mother of three very intelligent, beautiful and active (i. E. Soccer, piano, chess, academic team) children. Thus, I have no desire to become a serial dater nor introduce my children to a variety of men! That's not me. I was with their father for nearly seventeen years (we went to undergrad together), so they've never seen me date anyone. I'm proud to say that I have never been "out there" and I never will be. I would not have my children meet anyone unless that individual and I decided to embrace a serious, long-term relationship. By the way, my children are not looking for a father because they already have one, and I'm not looking for an instant family!:-) I feel like this is data dump of my stream of consciousness! GEESH! (sp)
Moving on... I enjoy writing poetry and there's nothing better than meeting someone who moves you to write and express your passions on paper. If you are that man, I'd like to meet you. Get ready to meet me!
I am looking for
I'd like to meet an honest, secure, geniunely caring man who enjoys life! I like tall(i. E. 5"11 or taller, I'm 5"2), professional, intelligent, romantic, strong, caring and athletic/fit men. Some of the positive attributes that I value in a man include: SELF-SUFFICIENCY (i. E. Employed and independent), EXCELLENT Hygenic practices, clean, respect for others, kindness, confidence, positive, appreciation of diversity, considerate, handsome, humor/enjoys laughter, LOVING, gentle, FUN, adventurous, non-smoking, honesty, healthy living, and has a relationship with God... (that was a mouthful right?!)
The beauty of maturity is that you know what you like and what you don't like. I have NO room in my life for drama or immaturity! I live in my own home, so my expectation is that I will meet a mature man who resides in his own home as well. I am a real woman who knows how to love (not too soon of course!), appreciate and take care of a man! I'm excited to meet someone who is "oh so cool", romantic and has a wonderful disposition. That man will move me to write poetry... That I will dedicate to him and to us. He must be affectionate and know how to embrace a woman of character, principles, and boundaries like me. I have a giving, loving spirit and I DO NOT share myself with everyone! I'd like to meet someone who is intrigued by these words enough to want to meet me. I want a gentleman who will open my door, pull out my chair, hold my hand, develop a friendship with me, take me out to dinner (and I can cook too!) and give me flowers and cards "just because"... Know that every quality I expect in a man, I also possess and will give in return. Respectfully, please DO NOT contact me if you're interested in what I would characterize as "sexcapades" with multiple women, or if your attention span is so short that you do not possess the emotional capacity to enjoy a healthy relationship beyond three months. Life is too short and too precious for me to expend my positivity, care, warmth and sincerity on a pretender or someone who does not value geniune friendship. I'm the real deal, so if you're not authentic, if your past troubled relationships cloud your judgment and stained your heart in such a way that those feelings could impact your ability to trust and see me for the smart, kind, honest, and beautiful woman- I AM, to the degree that you cannot taste and delight in the sweet nectar from the fruits I offer, then I am not the woman for you. However, if you wish to explore, enjoy and experience something as beautiful as a burgeoning friendship (fun, supportive, exciting) and perhaps the potential for more, then I'M LOOKING FORWARD to meeting YOU...