My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Simply_nique, Woman, 49 |
Location | Charlotte, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 33 - 55, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm a straight forward woman and I know what I want when I see it... Beauty is only skin deep. For those who want to Know the real me feel free to ask!
I love to chat and usually keep it on an associate level unless I am really digging someone's aura and then they become a friend. I appreciate and look for loyalty, honesty and diversity. This is a dating web site for those looking for sex and three somes WRONG chick. If your married and unhappy, leave I'm not your answer. I'm nobodies side chic. Well at least willingly lol. Keep it moving.... Smh. Those who are looking for the real deal hit me up. Trust and believe I don't need a web site to get laid ijs. My self esteem is in check trust that. I'm not moved by words, action speaks louder than words. Those that are about show and prove, SHOW me. I don't like to waste anyone's time, and trust I won't let you waste mine.
I am looking for
Not really looking for anything in particular, just new friends and new experiences.
This comes from true life experiences. I learned some things the easy way and some the hard way. I don't think friendship or love is something we can give carelessly nor is it something we'll receive easily; anything worth having takes hard work. So the question is... How do we know it's worth the hard work? Well, through trial and error. Real people try their best to handle their trials and accept and UNDERSTAND their errors. Can't go to trial twice for the same thing now can we...
I say - "I know what I want when I see it", but lets clarify this point a little. When I say "see it", I mean clearly and that takes time. Most of us send our representatives out when we first enter a relationship of any sort. It's not the real person, it's the person representing the real person. We want to put our best foot forward, this is why we see the sexy pics on profiles, the cars, the money, and the material things. So, let's think about it... Is that really who we are? Is that all we have to offer? Can a car hold you when you need to be held? Can a stack of money give you the friendship and support that EVERYONE needs at some point in life?
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you, but if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. Men who are interested should know what they want when they clearly see it, and know how to get it - that's most important. So take your time and choose the best