My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | SilentTee, Woman, 40 |
Location | Lacey, Washington, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 50, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm quite reserved and admittedly a bit sheltered. I take quite some time to open up and get comfortable but I'm doing my best to overcome that. I would describe myself as a work-in-progress. Thoughtful, nerdy, soft-spoken (most of the time), loving, but awkward. Physically? I'm a big girl. Not thick, big. Like I'm 5'7 and I weigh 235. I'm ok with that and if you're trying to talk to me you should be ok with that too. Move along and take care if that's not your thing. I happen to like myself quite a bit and it's taken me too long of a time to get to that point. :)
I currently work full time and help take of my father. I’m trying to get a social life and a place of my own. I have big plans for 2022 and I hope everything turns out well. Fingers crossed.
I am looking for
Honesty is key obviously... i know damn near everyone says it but not too many actually practice it so i feel the need to stress that. so what else? I want someone who adds to my life. Not talking physically or financially. Someone who urges me to do better, brings out the best in me. Someone who respects my feelings but doesn't take advantage of the fact that I also care about theirs. I love movies, bowling (I suck but it's fun to do!) and I do play video games although it's been a few years since I've bought a new one. What do you play? Assassins Creed, GTA? I'm down.
If you message me, tell me what you think we should do the first time we hang out. What’s your favorite flavor of cake? I enjoy the occasional night out with a drink or 2 (bonus points if you accompany me to the cashino) but I'm also just as happy to stay in and watch a movie and relax. I need a good mixture of both. I love, love music and enjoy going to shows when I get the opportunity. The last concert i saw live was Depeche Mode (pre Covid) and it was amazing. Comedy shows are great so maybe one day we can do that too.
What I'm NOT looking for:
I have no interest whatsoever in having my feet licked, caressed or massaged. I'm not going to stomp on food and force you to eat it. I'm not going to fulfill any master/slave fantasies. I don't want pictures of your penis. I'm not your black or fat girl experiment. Absolutely NO racists, homophobes, transphobes, mysoginists or chubby chasers need apply. If you were at the capitol on January 6, 2021 we’re probably not a good match but I wish you well. I know i sound very specific and judgy and I'm ok with that. I kinda have to be at this point. Thank you! <3