My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'0" (183 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Sheldon7, Man, 56 |
Location | Sarasota, Florida, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 40 - 57, Asian/White/East Indian... |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'0" (183 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am a fun loving, outgoing and educated man looking for a loyal woman with class and a positive outlook on life. I am retired now and finally have my home base here in SW Florida. I need to laugh as much as I need to breathe. I can be deep like an ocean, or profoundly shallow. I am a hopeful ro"man"tic, (notice the word man in quotes). I'm looking to find someone to truly connect with. The four important C's in my book of love are chemistry, compatibility, connection AND communication...and don't forget that weak in the knees, butterflies kind-of-a-feeling when you are with "that" person. I love adventure, surprises and spontaneity, and I look forward to growing older gracefully with my best friend someday. I am passionate, but laid back and I like trying, learning and seeing new things. I believe since life is so short and fragile, the best way to thank God (yes, I believe in God) is to be kind to each other like He asks and to get out of life as much as possible while I am here. But it gets boring without sharing all the ups and downs with your best friend...someone that is there when the tears are flowing from crying OR laughing. I am looking for that secure, confident, intelligent woman to explore life, travel, and learn with.
I like most genres of music, play drums and I go to the gym when I'm restless which isn't often. I enjoy hiking, biking, long walks with my dog and most anything that involves the outdoors to include rides on my Tri-Glide motorcycle. Oh, I play pickleball almost every day! Its soooo fun! I don't, however thoroughly like camping or fishing, but boating is indeed fun now and then, so you or I can drive the boat (one day when I or we get one) play grabass, entertain, nap or just watch and converse while you fish or not! I like to eat and I love to sleep! I have a passport which has been begging for more use lately. I'm nowhere near perfect but I'm perfect for me and more importantly I am who I am. I am sarcastic, hard-headed, and opinionated. I have what some people would call a "big mouth". I am hilarious, sarcastic and I joke, talk about people and can be rude (all in fun). But on the flip side, I am kind, compassionate, genuine, possess empathy, am educated, honest, supportive, tender, have integrity, and am loyal and considerate.
All that being said, I hope I made you laugh some, but all of what I said is true! Oh, if you contact me, don't send a one-word message because I won't respond to them unless you're extraordinarily hot. Also, if you are interested, please actually engage in conversation with me. Surely there's more to say than "yes" or "no" when you're getting to know someone. So, if you've got something to say to me, then say it.
I am looking for
Now, one quick unpleasantry...If you are from Ghana, don't contact me. Not looking for you, sorry. However, I'm looking for a woman who doesn't necessarily have to know her way around a kitchen. I don't define a person by how they cook. However, let me chase you around the house, making you giggle, as I try to steal a kiss. If we go hiking, no need to wait for me on the hiking trail because I am walking behind you for a reason ;-) Keep the drama to a minimum. No control freaks and no stalkers wanted either. Be funny, thoughtful, charming and inspiring. Sexy to me is between the ears so be somewhat educated. I like to learn new things and to me there's nothing sexier than an intelligent woman who can hold a conversation or show me something I've never seen or don't understand and explain it to me. I like a woman who can spout off some fact that most people don't know. Love me! Flaws and all. Send me flowers just to be different and because you know it'll make me smile. Leave me a love note because I make you smile. Please be stable, secure in your womanhood and don't be afraid to be a little naughty at times. Knowing that 20 years from now I can still make you have butterflies when you see me and vice versa. There is nothing more precious than a woman who loves to love and is open with her mind, her soul and her heart. Always hold my hand as I grab for yours. And hold on even tighter during the tough times. But be a little sassy. Remember, I am looking for my best friend that I can give my heart to but who will also challenge me. Be happy! Laugh at dumb jokes, yourself, other people or even me. Be real, no games and be honest. Live this short life the best you can. Be spontaneous and do something out of the ordinary every so often. Go shopping even if you're not buying a damn thing. Be respectful, confident, independent, laid back and thoughtful. Hold your head up high. Smile! Be kind, warm, honest (there's that word again) and loyal. Be beautiful and sexy, but most of all, be yourself. Take care of yourself first so I can take care of you second. I'm just hoping to have saved the rest of my life for the best of my life! And remember, when nothing goes right, go left! No hookups. Positive Vibes Only!!