My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Roxybaby, Woman, 36 |
Location | Riverside, California, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 22 - 32, White/Mixed/Other |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am 22, and look a day over 40! Thank you stress :( My name is Roxanne... Rox for short, and Roxalicious for long. I am 5'11, at least that is what the doctor says... I am intrigued by photography, psychology, poetry, and a whole bunch of other words that begin with the letter P. I sing for Jesus, but gossip out of boredom... So as you can see, I am far from the perfect individual.
My friends would describe me as, "That one loud, black-but-whitewashed, easy-to-get-along-with, free-spirited chick who is always looking for a good time!" I'd hardly consider myself to be whitewashed... No, I am just not willing to conform to the foolishness of today, but thanks for caring :)
Music is my form of marijuana - it keeps me feeling high, calm, full of fun, and often makes me hungry...? Hmmm... Anywho, I have a freakishly broad taste in music, as it varies depending on the mood.
Love blows chunks. I only say this because I cannot help being a sucker for sappy love stories, romantic gestures, and thought-out gifts, all while facing a shameful reality that THAT GUY is as existent as the hairy mole on my left butt cheek (hint: no hairy mole... Connect the dots). But nonetheless, I am still hopeful (which is probably going to lead to my demise).
I love writing. Though I am no amazing poet, I put a lot of emotion into my poetry. I find writing to be a temporary escape from ongoing torment by placing myself on a short-lived cloud of euphoria.
I am very easy to get to know, but hard to keep up with. I am one to listen, and one to tell you what you most likely will not want to hear. I consider myself to be pretty helpful, and I hardly require anything but your loyalty as a friend... What more could you ask for??
Can I please add that I am more inclined to evacuate two hefty bowels than listen to how much you lift, how often you run, and how you can make your pecks dance? No, I would not like two tickets to the gun show, so if that was where you are planning on taking me (if you are lucky enough to meet me), let's just shut that down now, shall we?
I also find it a serious problem if you talk in Ebonics/ghetto talk. If you cannot form an intellectual sentence, you are not going to stimulate me... And that is a HUGE negative. Please talk/type as though you actually graduated from elementary school.
Sorry if I come off strong, but I tend to attract these type of people all... The... Time... I just want to meet a nice, tall, funny man who can speak proper English, isn't a narcissist, and just happens to be on the lighter part of the color spectrum. I don't think I am asking too much :)
MUSIC: Rock (mainly indie, psychedelic stuff) and Hip-Hop.. As well as the occasional rap song (if it is Common or Kanye, hooray!)
A list of artists for you nit-picky people...
The Academy Is..., Al Green, Alicia Keys, AAF, Anberlin, Animal Collective, Artic Monkeys, Beastie Boys, The Beatles, Beethoven, Beirut, Beyonce, Black Eyed Peas, Bloc Party, Blondie, Blonde Redhead, Bob Marley, Cat Power, Chris Brown, The Classic Crime, Circa Survive, Coldplay, Common, Craig David, Daniel Bedingfield, David Bowie, David Gray, Default, DeVotchka, The Dodos, Donald Lawerence, Elliot Smith, EWF, Fantasia, Fleet Foxes, Flight of the Conchords, Floetry, Franz Ferdinand, Fred Hammond, Grizzly Bear, Ima Robot, Imogen Heap, Incubus, Interpol, Iron & Wine, Jason Mraz, Jill Scott, Jimmy Eat World, John Frusciante, John Legend, John Mayer, Jose Gonzalez, Joseph Arthur, Justin Timberlake, Kaki King, Kanye, Kings of Leon, Kirk Franklin, Led Zeppelin, Lenka, Linkin Park, Lupe Fiasco, Maroon 5, Mars Volta, Marvin Gaye, Marvin Sapp, Matisyahu, Metallica, Michael Buble, Michael Jackson, Modest Mouse, Muse, Musiq, My Chemical Romance, Ne-yo, Nick Drake, Nirvana, Outkast, Passion Pit, Pink Floyd, Prince, Radiohead, Regina Spektor, Staind, Strokes, Vampire Weekend...
I am looking for
In terms of preferences, I have a few - some mandatory, some not. I am very much attracted to Caucasians, but that does not rule the rest of the races out... I need a tall man. This is the only thing that I am currently not willing to budge on, so if you are my height or taller, you can consider yourself safe for this round. I lied. Another thing I am unwilling to budge on is a sense of humor. I laugh at everything... EVERYTHING. If you cannot crack a smile once in a while, prepare to filed away in the file cabinet of shame.
I have an extremely outgoing and bubbly personality. The guy that I am interested needs to have the same. I am tired of dominating all topics of conversation, and need someone who can challenge my thoughts and is willing to take over sometimes. I find intelligence to be the best quality in a man, so I suggest that you flaunt whatever diploma you have in my face. Trust me, you will earn all sorts of brownie points.
Though I did not think I needed to say this, it needs to be said. SHOW INTEREST in me. I know this seems shallow, but how else will I know you like me if you don't seem interested? Your time is just as valuable as mine, and I would hate to see time being wasted on something that is not going anywhere.
I feel like I just poured my heart and soul out, but I am hoping it sifts out the crowd I DON'T want to attract...