Nickname | Refinedlove, Man, 43 |
Location | Bakersfield, California, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 18 - 99, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
How would you describe yourself?
Sensitive, forthright, considerate, devoted and sexual: I guess I'm a complex human with common desires. I'm Proudly Nigerian, I am also very social, easy-going, always friendly, very playful, and imaginative. I like to dream about possibilities rather than dwell on the past. But, don't be fooled by my casual and dreamy persona. I am pretty quick and clever, and have a good memory because I am always paying attention to my environment. I tend to be achievement-oriented and make calculated moves toward reaching my vision of an ideal life (whatever that may be). Although I am pretty organized in life, I am not one for routines. I prefer variety and uncertainty to predictability and safety. What else? Well, I am quite independent-minded and have a solid core, so basically you can leave me at a party and I would be fine (and might actually enjoy it!). My life is a "work in progress" and I'm enjoying the journey.