My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Purfkt1, Woman, 53 |
Location | Birmingham, Alabama, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 35 - 50, White/Latino/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm CURVY-FLUFFY, they don't list that as a body type. That's a pity. They know womanly shape descriptions will not be confined to 4 meager descriptions. I have recently (within the last year) acquired a love for going to the gym and getting on my Precor elliptical and Rower (i may be a bit obsessed).. Gotta keep a lock on these curves. Its a process to contain all this sexy awesomeness for daily public consumption.
Hobby: finding a hobby
What makes me unique: Im not a twin..
Taste in music:variety
Goals: Live for Today, Hope for tomorrow and Keep it moving.....
I LOVE TO LAUGH, long, hard and often ( hmm, sounds like good sex, huh...;-))
First date:(of course I don't expect all of these in the same day, but if you're feeling ambitious, Im game...)
Botanical gardens and having an ice cream cone
Putt Putt golf
Dave n Busters
Shooting range and having an ice cream cone ;-)
Museum stroll
Meal at a nice and comfortable place,,,
I really would love the first date to be comfortable. I see a stroll in a garden or by the lake or in a museum, somewhere we can talk and get to know each other, where I can dazzle you with my sparkling personality...
My favorites:
Fave Movies; action
Fave Books; Thrillers, suspense
Fave food: Yes
The 6 things I could never do without:
God...not cliche just absolutely true...
Free will
Choices
Money
Good Food
Love....again not a cliche in my world
Freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about:
What to do next
I am looking for
I think that is really a loaded question.
I don't want to give a response that's "full of it" ;-) But, I want to be authentic. I'm here to hopefully connect with someone. That seems to be the most difficult thing to do these days. I'm still trying to understand how meeting someone on a dating site seems to be so much easier than meeting someone 'naturally' in just everyday interactions. I'm stepping out of my comfort zone here and think it would be fantastic to connect with someone doing the same. I want the "stroll and hand hold" guy. The "call up and vent to" guy. The "bring me chicken soup when he finds out I have a cold" guy. The guy I can call up and say "hey, lets hit that vineyard(thats 70 miles down the road) we heard about when we were scoping wine bottles in the Fresh Market wine aisle last weekend". The guy whose arms I feel comfortable enough in to fall asleep watching a movie and wake up with both of us still fully clothed.
I would love to fall in love with my friend, but I have to have the friend first, yes? I suppose I could be kinda generic and give you a grocery list of my strengths, weaknesses, loves/hates, yatta, yatta yatta.....but believe me when I tell you, you will have so much more fun creating your own list about me, just by getting to know me. Yes, this is an invitation.
Tall men make me swoon. I like muscles, yes, I mean c'mon Im a girl after all. But a man who is naturally strong makes my toes curl. Example: I knew this man with a build and height of Tim Robbins(Shawshank Redemption, great movie, one of my favorites). Now, Tim doesn't really look like he could bend a feather and neither did this man, but I would watch him lift and carry these items and stacks of items that only a man with some level of strength could perform. Height gets my attention, what you're working with keeps it. How do I put this?? I will know and feel that he is THE MAN. Does that make sense? I can be equally excited by watching a man work with his hands and watching a man work with his mind. I mean the way Hank Hill(King of the Hill) takes care of home(all of home) turns me on. And at the same time Aloysius Pendergast(character in Preston and Child novels) and his sheer manner makes me quiver and he is probably more physically akin to Poindexter. Whew, is it warm in here?.. Am I getting my point across here?.
So, c'mon, broaden your horizons along with me. Who knows, at the very least you could make a fabulously, wonderful, witty, smart, and beautiful new friend. How could that ever be a bad thing?