My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Pjblondie33, Woman, 46 |
Location | Ottawa, Ontario, Canada |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 50, Black/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm outgoing and shy at the same time. I can pretty much talk to anybody, but shy when it comes to public speaking, and writing about myself. I can be pretty silly sometimes and have no problem laughing at myself. I love being outside and inside. I have a wide variety of interest, just ask. I like to workout and I stay pretty active, when I haven't done something to hurt myself. Lol. I am sure I will think of something else to say about myself, but I'll keep it short and sweet for now. If u want to know more about me, please ask...:)
10 Reasons Why you might be interested in me:
10. I am down to earth, honest and caring.
9. You won’t hear me nag and complain because I don’t sweat the small stuff.
8. You will never, ever compete with me.
7. You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times.
6. You will never see me roll my eyes at you when you say something because I will respect you.
5. You will see my smile far more often than my frown.
4. You will not have to choose me over sports.
3. You won’t be holding my purse at the shoe store. You won’t even BE at the shoe store with me, unless you like shoes.
2. You will not find yourself sitting in a movie theater watching chick flicks. We Will be watching something with action.
1. You won't see message after message from me wondering where you are and who your with. I'm independent and have my own life too.
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I am looking for
Looking for a Good Man..
Good Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets, in the malls, and the halls at work. Most we can't see because we don't know what a good man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not have a body like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you realize it's better to find someone who's got your back rather than someone who turns your head.
A good man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. He is (he won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and yours may clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.
A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!"
A good man isn't insecure about his woman having great achievements. In fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with her when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not hurting his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals. For as she excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man right along with her.
A good man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. It's just not true.