Someone who has similar experiences, qualities, aspirations as noted in my description. Someone who sees and knows themselves not as a fixed entity but a being always consciously choosing to expand in awareness, acceptance, forgiveness, and JOY, an artwork in progress that may experience doubt and distrust in where or how to place the next brush stroke, but with patience, kindness, listening and trusting the next brush stroke comes. Here is what I am not looking for anymore at this stage of awareness in my life (been there done that): Someone who needs me to need them, someone who is jealous of me, my job, my friends, someone who needs me to rescue them, someone who needs me to complete them, someone who thinks I am their one and only soulmate, someone who smokes cigs or drugs, someone who drinks alcohol, someone who has decided that in order to feel alive or get attention they must have and create drama, someone who believes that anyone or anything outside them can "make them angry."