My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | NotUrAvgMale, Man, 46 |
Location | Atlanta, Georgia, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 18 - 35, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm the brain looking for my Pinky so we can try to take over there 🌎 on a daily basis. Where are you Pinky? 🤔 And also I've got a sexy dad bod so if you've got daddy issues we might be a match made in internet dating heaven 🤷🏾♂️😉. Also please note that I'm a DJ and I work both private events like weddings and corporate parties as well as in adult/strip clubs. So I'm around beautiful, naked women often. If this offends you or makes you nervous or insecure or you have jealousy issues, you may want to go ahead and pass me over 🤷🏾♂️
Help! Someone get me off this site for good! 😃 Please no one from sh*thole countries this means no Africans 😂 wait, does that make me sound racist? Oh well. And definitely do not message or flirt with me without pics, you will get instantly rejected mkay 👍🏾
Also if you can't have, don't want to have or are undecided about having children, there's no need to contact me as starting a family is my #1 priority. I CANNOT stress the desire to have my own children (plural), so please keep this in mind if you are a bold woman who isn't afraid to make the first move.
I am quite the enigma, I'm very balanced and very well rounded. I'm an old soul who appreciate old school music, even classical, however I'm a young spirit who really enjoys current hip hop, trap and EDM music as well. I try to enjoy life to the fullest. Peter Pan is my spirit animal. I'm grown and mature, but I won't grow up. I work hard and play even harder. I enjoy the funner things in life 😉 I believe that's the key to living a happy life. Remember we don't stop playing because we get old, we get old because we stop playing 💯
Some other words to describe me:
*Musical - I've been heavily involved in music since I was 5. That includes singing, and being a professional DJ.
*Funny - I am quite the comedian
*Spiritual - Not religious, not preachy. Definitely not judgmental.I was born and raised Christian, even got ordained. And while I'm very active in my church, God has shown me that He is bigger than 1 particular religion and I've experienced and seen God in a multitude of religions. At the end of the day what works for me works for me and what works for you works for you.
*Dominant - Thus the 50 Shades reference. Not dominating (there is a difference), nor possessive. I am however a great leader.
*Empathetic & Giver - I get these traits from my mother. I help those in need as often as possible with both money and time. These are probably the most important aspects my partner will have.
*Intelligent - I'm actually quite the nerd. I love knowledge. Knowledge is power.
*Sensual/Sexual - I'm just gonna be real. Sexual compatibility is very underrated. I don't plan on talking about sex right off the bat, but if you have a high sex drive and you're pretty open-minded you get extra brownie points ;)
If any of those words remind you of you and you think we have things in common feel free to hmu if I haven't hit you up first. At the end of the day I'm looking for someone who's compatible with me and someone ready to start a family in the not too distant future. I prefer someone with no children like myself. The last few women I've dated have had children and our schedules and lifestyles just didn't work out. Having children is not a deal breaker, just don't have any hangups about having more children with a different guy and you'll be fine. At the end of the day, I believe relationships should flow like water. I personally don't believe that relationships should be hard work. You should literally be able to just go with the flow. And for those who know about them, my love languages are "Quality Time" and "Physical Touch" equally. Also I know its not the norm, but I have a career that I can take anywhere, so relocating to someplace cool is very much an option if it came down to it.
I am looking for
What am I looking for? I'm looking for a wife, nothing too serious. The female version of me LOL. Seriously I would like someone very similar to me and not because I'm conceited but because I believe I'm very well balanced so I don't need a quote on quote opposite of me. I am looking for friends right now because friendship has to be the foundation for any relationship to work, be it romantic or even business, you gotta be friends first. So with that in mind, let's keep it moving.
Honestly when it comes to looks and ethnicity, I don't have a type. I've dated black, white, Asian, Latin and all points in between. I've dated skinny, fit, thick and all points in between. I'm not too picky. However, my preference is a natural woman meaning no fake breast, no ass shots and no lace front wigs. Basically no build-a-bitches 🙅🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤣
What I'm not looking for is a "simple" woman. If that's a word you would use to describe yourself then I'm certain you would bore me very quickly. I need someone complex with depth to them. I'm looking for someone who's real with themselves therefore they can be real with others. I won't go through a long list, that way people can't say I'm exactly what you're looking for. Instead I believe you can find out about people better through personal interactions. Of course I like the basics, honesty, intelligence, fun-loving with a zest for life, and you can add any other things that go without saying lol. I need someone who's balanced like me. One who can be a revolutionary and fight for love, peace & justice when need be, yet someone who is silly and goofy like me who doesn't take life too seriously and knows how and when to have a good time. Oh yea and you must like sappy love songs because I love to butcher them as I try to sing them to you :)
I don't care about your "stuff", I'm wise enough to know that the best things in life are free, and that money can't buy love or happiness. I don't care about your accolades or degrees or lack thereof, I care about your heart and your mind. If you're degrees are only to help you make more money and not to help out others, in the end they're useless.
I'm gonna just go ahead and put this out there lol, the most important thing I look for is both spiritual and sexual compatibility and someone who will not only understand but fully support my dreams and goals. I'm an ordained minister and I take my spirituality very seriously as well as my personal ministry, however at the same time, I am by no means a prude. In fact I'm just the opposite, I'm very open-minded and willing to try just about anything at least once. On top of that I do work in the music and film industry, none of it is religious its all secular, and of course I have dreams of making it BIG soon and my g/f / wife will have to understand that lifestyle and schedule and everything that comes with it.
I tend to date women who are younger than me, also, I tend to mostly date non-black women and no this is not something new for me or an itch I'm trying to scratch, its been that way for over 20 yrs now. I'm that awkward black guy who loves Jazz just as much as he does Hip Hop and Top 40. One of my favorite TV shows of all time is Frazier. So yea I'm a different black guy for sure.
*Can somebody please tell me what the hell Black / Non-African decent is?
*Is it really relocating if you move within your own city? Isn't that just moving? Hmmm.
*I need someone who is interdependent like me. That means not too dependent on others, and not too independent either as we were not created to be islands unto ourselves. Knowing when to ask for help and knowing when to go out and do it yourself. Once again its all about being balanced.
*The most important traits to have are a love for life, yours and those around you. You need to be able to see the good and the God in everyone and everything, even when it doesn't look like either is there. Being empathetic and having compassion for those who are less fortunate then you is very sexy indeed. We don't have to be like Mother Theresa and Gandhi and spend every moment of our whole lives helping others, I do believe in balance and getting away to play and enjoy life just as much as you give back to others. You do however have to be like Gandhi in the sense of being the change you want to see.
*What exactly is a professional? I thought if you got paid to do something that made you a professional. For instance I cook fries at home all the time, but I don't get paid for it, so wouldn't that make the fry guy @ McDonald's who gets paid to drop the fries a professional? Just wondering?
*My favorite signs and for what reasons are as follows:
Leos, it takes one to know one lol.
Libras, bring an unmatched balance.
Virgos, yea I'll just keep that one to myself lol.
Taurus, very passionate and sensitive people.
Pisces, my mama's one, need I say more lol.
Capricorn, very stubborn like me, I like a good fun challenge.
Aries, yes you all finally made it on to the list lol ;)
I like all signs, these are just ones that stand out for some reason or another.
WHEW! If you got through all of this, you've passed the first test!