My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Currently Separated |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | MzKayJay, Woman, 44 |
Location | Cape Coral, Florida, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 38 - 45, Asian/White/East Indian... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Currently Separated |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm a recently separated mother of 3 (don't worry no babies π). I enjoy having actual "fun" (no hidden inuendos ppl, lol) & β€ to π. If u can make me π that's a plus for u. I like to believe that I'm a humble person & adore a securely confident person, but despise overly cocky know-it-alls. π
I'm far from the average female so I won't try to impress u w/ talk of the latest trends. How much π΅ u have & the type of π u drive does not do it for me, I'd rather someone who can stimulate every region of my craniumπ€·π½. I'm a talker not a texter, so actual conversations & human interaction appeal to me. I have a mirror & have met my parents, so I know I'm pretty (far from cocky just overly expressive). So if all u have are compliments then sorry dude I'm good. No offense to the beautiful blk men on here, but this is an interracial dating site, so plz respect my preference.
Plz know that if I give u my attn then YES best believe I expect urs in return. If I reach I'm interested but that internal window only cracks, it's up to u break thru so show me something that sets you apart from the pack. I don't multi task relationships, I'm not built like that. I'm not in the circus so I'm incapable of juggling, especially dudes. I give what I get; so if I get shyt, be prepared to eat ur fair share. I'm far from religious, but I'm super realistic so I believe in Karma, that Kismet type flow... What u do always seems to find its way rt back in ur own yard, so I try to treat ppl accordingly. π
With that being said, Hi π I'm Kay Jay π
I am looking for
Someone who can make me π & has the capability to not confuse having a sense of humor w/ immaturity. One who's motivated, focused & happy in their own skin π. (If u feel the need to have profile pics of u from way back when plz give a heads up bc purposely omitting the truth is nothing but a fancy way of lying.)
I don't think I have a type, just an idea of what I do not want. I'm all about loyalty & honesty (even the brutal part). I'm not a teacher so no one who requires lessons on the do's & don'ts (in relationships, on life or w/ women).
I shy away from "games" unless it comes in a box, so "time waisters" need not apply β. I've selected a specific age range which is a little flexible but no one damn near old enough to be my dad; I don't have daddy issues nor am I in search of "pay for play" (so weird that I have to say that but it's whatever, lol)π. Anyway, my sincere apologies to u "distinguished gentlemen" but u just aren't my cup of teaπ΅π.
Overall I'm seeking an adult who can make me laugh, provide good conversation, is good company & understanding to my having children who depend on me, a job & life that requires my attn (very often), so I may not always be able to just get up and go on a whim, however I will & do make as much time as I can to build & maintain relationships. Also, being that I'm tall height matters. Ijs. π
Lenghty & thorough, but not too much to ask... Well I don't think so π