My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'1" (185 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Mack1975, Man, 48 |
Location | Birmingham, Alabama, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 26 - 43, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'1" (185 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Good Man.. I might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. I might not have a body like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you realize it's better to find someone who's got your back rather than someone who turns your head.
I might not agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. I won't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. I have my own opinions that may clash, but I wont degrade you to prove I am right. I even admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the same.
A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful, strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!"
A good man isn't insecure about his woman having great achievements. In fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with her when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not hurting his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals. For as she excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man right along with her.
A good man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth that our men are no good. It's just not true.
A good black man is a man of his word. He says what he means and means what he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering if he is going to call or show up - he is dependable. A good black man has a love and a heart for God. As his relationship and love with and for God grows so will his relationship and love with and for you grow...
I am looking for
Must be intelligent and capable of holding a conversion about something real. Please, if you have developed a preconceived notion, and entertain this sie as a online dating grocery store, (be gone). I am tired of never hearing anything but gossip and other mindless babble out of another person.#2 Must be self-confident and comfortable with herself. It's ok that what other people think bothers you but not when a word from some jerk ruins your day.
P. S
Anyone can catch your eyes, but it takes someone special to catch your heart...
Is Love controllable? Hmmm.