My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Lovechild111, Man, 51 |
Location | Fort Myers Beach, Florida, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 23 - 53, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm a youthful, adventurous and financially stable man. I love pushing the boundaries of what life has to offer. I'm upbeat and looking to find a woman who is also passionate about living her life. I play tennis (a lot), practice yoga and go to the gym regularly. I also monitor my daily "step count" I try to get at least 15-20K per day. I am creative and enjoy playing music, acting, doing comedy and filmmaking... but I also like to occasionally veg out and watch basketball. I also travel A LOT. I've been to over 43 countries and counting. I also have a very demented/irreverent sense of humor. I am a combination of a deep thinking man who approaches life in a lighthearted and playful manner.
I am looking for
I'm fairly open minded about what "type" of woman I am looking for. I can say that someone with a kind heart, which may seem obvious... is very important to me. By that I mean, I would probably prefer a "sweet" girl to a "hot" girl, but honestly I'm looking for someone who could be described as both. I can't tolerate negativity or mean-spiritedness. While I'm looking for a stylish woman, who is serious about her appearance, if you are overly superficial with zero spirituality or depth of soul then you and I probably won't click. Another way of saying this less politely, "if you are anything resembling a 'Slay Queen' please stay far away from me"
IMPORTANT: I want to meet a woman who is intelligent and stimulating. That doesn't mean you have to have your entire future planned out or possess a PHD, but I become quickly disinterested in women with zero ambition who can't maintain thought-provoking conversations. I have a very strong creative spirit and a very active sense of humor, I want to find a woman that can enhance and inspire.
My mind is open to dating women from completely different cultural backgrounds than mine because I like the idea of learning from another person in an effort to make myself more well-rounded. In other words I like to learn and grow but here's the catch... I expect the same interest in learning from my background. If you have zero curiosity about the universe outside of your social bubble, do me a favor and do not message me. We won't last.
Honesty is paramount. I realize this is a dating site and if we're chatting it's possible or likely the you are chatting with other men. That's expected. But if we do decide to take it to an exclusive level... no shadiness... no secret life in your phone. Too old for that.
I'm not a perv (I swear) but there must be a sexual chemistry. I tried a relationship where this didn't exist at the outset, hoping we could discover/develop it down the road. We couldn't. And the relationship failed as a result so... if there isn't that spark, I've learned it's probably not a good idea to proceed. Just being real.