My ethnicity is | Black/White/Mixed |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Lady_Phoenix, Woman, 43 |
Location | Saint Paul, Minnesota, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 40, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/Mixed |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am 29 and have 2 beautiful baby girls, ages 3 and 1. Basically, I am an easy going and fun loving, hopeless romantic. In a relationship I have some old-fashioned viewpoints. I feel that men and women have specific roles in relationships and they should be honored because that's what fosters the core instincts of each sex and creates balance. That being said, I firmly believe that a couple should be a team, both equal and working together... I just feel that some things are men's work and other things are women's work and for fairly good reason. I enjoy meeting and being around people because I feel that everyone you meet can teach you something and your world is further broadened with each new person you meet. I am a creative type. Never been the one to clock a strict 9-5 for very long. I'd much rather live a minimal lifestyle and do the things I love than to be wealthy and spend a lifetime working a job I hate. Don't get that misunderstood, though. I still dream big & work hard to achieve those dreams. I'm just not willing to settle for any old job to get there. My daughters are the most important part of my life right now, second only to GOD. They are my pride, my joy and honestly my greatest accomplishment to date. I am a Christian, however, I don't consider myself a religious person. I am very spiritual and have a strong personal relationship with GOD, but I don't feel I need to be in church 3 times a week to achieve that relationship. I love to laugh, live and love because life is short and when I'm on my deathbed those are the kinds of things I'll be thinking about and I hope to have plenty of those kinds of experiences to rejoice and celebrate in. I have struggled and hurt and I have chosen to heal and move beyond that kind of life. I am a very versatile person that interacts with all races and classes, listens to almost all genres of music and am willing to try out all kinds of different things. Last but certainly not least, I honor and respect honesty. Dishonesty and lies are my biggest pet peeve and the quickest way to get me to walk, no -- RUN, as far from you as possible.
I am looking for
You are HONEST, FAITHFUL, RESPECTFUL, RESPONSIBLE, open-minded, caring, compassionate, romantic, loving, considerate, willing to try new things and was never into (or has at least grown out of) the "gansta" mentality. You're a man that can go from the boardroom to a Jay-Z concert to playin with the kids at the park to the opera to meeting the president to dinner with my family to bumpin and grindin at the club to church, and be able to work the room in all of the above environments. You should look and smell good and feel comfortable wearing anything -- from a suit and tie to RocaWear to dingy sweats to your own skin. You are constantly working towards bettering yourself, living a positive, LEGAL life and are able to bring to the table a minimum of what I already have and possess the desire to grow with me from there, as a couple, while we encourage each others growth as individuals. You have a hunger to continually learn and the willingness to continually teach. You are able to laugh, be goofy and clown. As for the long-term, when it's all said and done -- you will need to love, cherish and honor me and my daughters, as much as we love cherish and honor you and any children you may have.