My ethnicity is | Asian/Black/White/Mixed... |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Karmalian, Woman, 44 |
Location | Greenville, South Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 37, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Asian/Black/White/Mixed... |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Hmmm, where do I start? First, some quick descriptive words - independent, intelligent, philosophical, sensitive, generous, loyal, hard working go-getter, mature
Like most people I am complex. Depending on the situation, the best of my personality will shine. Generally I am laid back. Love to laugh, so I have a healthy sense of humor. Upon first meeting, I may seem shy & quiet. Once I get a feel for you I am all talk & smiles! I read people pretty good, so liars, manipulators & perpetrators need not apply. Traditional woman I am not, but I do know how to let a man be a man.
My hobbies include reading, music, traveling, spending time with family & friends. A jane of all trades, I love to learn & know a little something about everything. I am open to new experiences & will try anything once. It is hard to put me in a neat little box as I am a walking oxymoron: symphonies, clubbing; movies, netflix; slightly hood, highly professional; sweats & nikes, skirts & heels; the list keeps going...
Currently, I am in school working towards my accounting degree. I work 40+ hours every week with crappy days off. A work in progress is the best I can say for this stage of my life. I am incorporating healthier habits into my life such as exercising (love yoga with a passion, hate aerobics with the same intensity), eating healthy (hate cooking, but I can make it do what it do!), and reducing my carbon footprint (yes, I recycle). Though I am a busy woman, I will make time if I feel it is worthy.
There is sooo much more I could describe about my personality, but that would spoil the fun:)
I am looking for
The qualities I seek in men... Guess I will start with the basics - intelligent, open-minded, sense of humor, go-getter, loyal, independent, mature, attentive.
Before anything else, one must have a sense of humor! If you do not enjoy laughing & joking around we have a problem. Ideally, a man should be able to hold an intelligent conversation with me. He need not throw out $10 words, but it would be nice if he were cultured & up on current events. This man should be able to handle a woman whose musical tastes range from maze - david bowie - guns n roses - kid cudi - t. I.- beethoven. I respect a man's need for personal space/time, nights out with the boys, sunday/monday night football, etc., and I expect the same respect. I do maintain a respectable distance, but if a man does not keep contact with me on a regular basis - not stalker - I will take that as disinterest and move on.
As I stated above I do NOT take kindly to men who prey on kind women like myself. I cannot stress enough how much I despise liars, manipulators & messy ass people. Those qualities are extremely unattractive on a man. I do NOT like drama! I understand we all have issues, but if you are looking for someone to fix those issues, I suggest you start within. Oh yeah, no bitch-assness, please!
I am open to dating other races, though I have only dated black men. I am looking to expand my experiences & social network so all races are welcome to hit me up. If you are looking to "try a mixed girl" or some equally ignorant inner fantasy, please keep it moving.
Since I do not fit into a neat little box, I do not expect you to fit that neat box either. I am looking to build a friendship and if it grows to more than that, well, we'll see. To say I do not want to marry & have children would be a lie. However, I am in no rush to walk down the aisle. I just want to live life to the fullest and enhance other people's lives the way they enhance mine!
Life is too precious to be miserable & unhappy... Live it to the fullest! Do unto others... You know the rest! Peace & blessings!