My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Kaii33, Woman, 56 |
Location | London, England, UK |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 99, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/Mixed |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Other build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
. Hello I am kaii, born and raised in london where I have lived all my life, but I do have tremendous enjoyment of travel. I have a kookie personality and sense of humor. I do love to laugh, mostly at myself lol. It is a common held notion that to cry alone is the most dreadful of things however I believe to laugh alone is truly heartbreaking. I would like to find friends to share my joy with. Male female gay straight, all of creation are welcome apart from insects lol I have issues with insects loll
I am, at the moment recovering from illness, the details of which are dreadfully boring lol, my recovery is slow and affects my daily life unfortunately things are slower than I would like however I am determined to have at least one more adventure at the very least and seek friends to enjoy that adventure. Some of my core values are respect kindness truth, honesty, humility, appreciation and gratitude. I am usually am the first to start the party and the last to leave lol, shoes in hand, It has not been a good time unless I have danced until my feet hurt!!!. I love to read books, the type printed on paper lol, history, social and economic issues womens issues. I am not a big fan of fiction however I am in awe of Toni Morrison and Maya Angelou. I enjoy poetry and do write creatively and have had just a few pieces published. I love to cook and entertain at home a lively informal dinner party with discussion and debate and some music is my idea of bliss lol. I do volunteer a day a week at women's failitiy undertaking the facilitation of cognitive educational group workshops, service in my belief is important because I have been very blessed and should give back what I can. I am not a sporty person, for which I have valid but somewhat protracted reasons lol, lol. My idea of a workout is a manicure, pedicure facial and massage. I like tattoos and have recently read a book about victorian tattooed ladies which was eye opening. I am inked but just in 2 discreet places as I do feel they must be covered when I work. I am planning 2 more small creations and then I really will stop. My inking's are very meaningful and thought out. I would like to have Betty Boop or Hello Kitty but that is not going to happen. Unless they are temporary in which case I will have both.
I do enjoy the beach, but far more on the continent than in Europe, it is a completely different vibe, My people in Ghana are coastal but I love to explore the interior as much as possible. I am GA because my father is. When I was last in Accra I said I would like to visit Nigeria, those who did not laugh in my face remained speechless lol. I would never defy my senior uncle whilst under his care in in Ghana. That is just the way it is,, the fact he denies me very little makes it easy lol, my safety is his concern really LOL my uncle is a fascinating man who was very active in the struggle for independence. He is very westernized as he spent many years in Europe in exile.
I do not spend much time at all in Jamaica, which is another beautiful place its name mean the land of wood and water however the levels of violence are a big problem. It is a shame as I love reggae sun splash a huge out door music festival. I would like to go to sun splash in Japan as there is a big japanese following of Rastafari.
I do adore children and do believe it takes a village to raise a child I do not have children but call my nieces and nephews my sons and daughters I adore them all 15 of them lol. I like to hang out with my teenagers and try to learn the latest dance moves and slang, they think I am hilarious and mock me lol lol it is fun.
I have been academically successful but I am baffled by the world and the people in it. If people see kindness as weakness, respectful passiveness as something to exploit rather than nurture it, and those who find it easier to lie and cheat for gain rather than just ask, or to use love as a means to harm, I truly feel sorry for them because I can not change, I did try to but it made me so unhappy I gave up and just continued to be me lol. I do like to explore my own spirituality. Native americans call it the red road, it is not easy bit it is awesome. The day you stop learning I suggest you check for a pulse lol
My mother is the most amazing Jamaican lady, she achieved so much and dealt with so many things in life and always soldiered on. She was never vain but always the most beautiful woman in the room whether she wore western clothes or traditional cloth. She is a little old fashioned and I have inherited that from
Her lol. My mother was always so industrious and always elegant, charming and graceful. In my entire life I heard my mother use the mildest of cuss words once lol my sister was running around rather than let my mother comb out her terribly tangled hair, I feel privileged to have been raised by her I am her last child and she did spoil me but I did not see it as being spoiled I was a compliant child, I figured out I was spoiled when I had to live in the real world and that was a shock lol. I have my spoiled brat well under control now lol.
I must confess that with my ethnic mix there are very rare occasions that my blood is pure fire and the brat escapes, this is very rare and it actually makes me cry because I thrive in peaceful nurture, volatile people make me feel uneasy I am a complete technophobe because I have not applied myself lol technical minded people find this annoying we can therefore assume that some technical minded people are yet to learn you catch more with honey than you do with vinegar lol lol lol lol. I do so look forward to learning about you and sharing and learning more about each other
I am a dreadful chatterbox but sometimes I say nothing at all lol, I feel that word paradox approaching again lol lol.
Please do not look at me 20 times and leave no word. I feel very unsettled by that. What does it take so many times too see? NB I welcome single dads. I adore children but have none of my own. With love and respect we influence children. That is a very important job.I do not want to be your childrens mother they have a mother already I just want to feed them burgers ice cream and cola. Then leave you to cope with their sugar rush LOL I'm a little concerned by the level of racism on this site.I Don't Need it.
I am looking for
I seek all the positive thing that seeks me lol. Thoughtful. Open, expressive, tolerant, emotionally intelligent easy going, with the ability to be driven and ambitious to have an opinion, be interested and interesting. At ease with ones self, just some nice friends who are be able to accept and give love, be supportive and accept support when you need it and be a non judgmental and accepting without being bullying or controlling
I did specify age but really that does not matter if you are a like minded person. I was also asked to be gender specific but LBGT friends are welcome my quest is finding friendship. I love love, LOL I was raised to treat men with respect and trust them with responsibility and what you get in return is a respectful responsible man. I am very influenced by my culture in that I do tend to wait on my man a bit LOL. I have learned to curb myself because some people see that as being a doormat which am not and will never be or find it uncomfortable. But we learn about each other and find out what is okay. Please send me a message no need to be shy life is way too short I will reply and I may actually surprise you. I Am the alchemist you seek