My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Jersey_boy30, Man, 42 |
Location | Elizabeth, New Jersey, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 24 - 38, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Dear True Love,
I am waiting for you. I have been here waiting to hear the sound of your voice, the touch of your hand, your laughter ever since I first dreamed of you. I have never seen you, but I dont need to. I know that you are perfect for me. We are perfect for each other, in every way. I am torn by the fact that I do not know if I have ever seen you before, or if you are someone I will find later on in my life. I know I will find you, but I find it hard to wait. Every night I dream about you, and every morning you seem to dissolve before my eyes when I first open them. I want you to be the one I wake up in the morning and see next to me, someone who I can take care of. I will always be here waiting, no matter how long it takes to find you. Love has no limit, no set time... It comes when you decide to let it.
Love Always,
Patience.
Who am I?... I'm Spider-Man. Wait, no, that was a movie!... I would describe myself as stable in my career and goal-oriented. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people's feelings... When I'm with someone special, I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, sensual, playful, and basically having that type of fun you see two people who just met in the movies having! Someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with! I'm looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires someone who they can connect with... I feel there has to be a mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So being fit and having good looks are important, as well as sensual and affectionate... Having some similar interests helps. Some things I enjoy are fine dining, walking at the beach at night, going dancing, watching movies including foreign films, traveling, going snowboarding, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together...
I crave what the poet Richard Siken wrote of in "Crush."
But I understand that love is sometimes more like "you fit into me" by Margaret Atwood.
James Bond is my mentor and The Most Interesting Man in the World is my life coach. A modern day Arthur Rimbaud, if you will.
Recently my best friend paid me this compliment: "you navigate seamlessly between fun and serious, sensual and sexual, romantic and raunchy". You can get a grasp of what I'm like from my friends prospective from this quote, and the "raunchy" part I hope is more about my sense of humor. Lol.
Six things I could never do without:
Great food
Music
5 Senses
Love
Sex
Adrenaline
I used to say the ocean/beach, but I've since learned that I would give up the beach for some daily spooning. (the hugging kind)
I spend a lot of time thinking about:
When will the world get male birth control pills?
What if the hokey poke is what it's all about?
How to make more desserts on the BBQ.
If everyone Wang Chungs tonight, what would tomorrow be like?
Or the great debate of green vs red Tabasco, do you want the heat or the flavor?
I am looking for
I'm putting out a world wide web bulletin to get everyone's help. You see, I've lost my smile. I'm not really myself without it. I have a couple leads that give me hope that it may have been found, including a vague description. She appears to be between 24 and 40 years old, but may appear younger than her age. She is at least 5'5" , she's thick but doesn't live at the gym either. She has high-maintenance looks with a down-to-earth attitude, values, and personality. She loves to shop and may be found at Victoria secrets. I have conflicting reports that she's either a blonde or a brunette. She's intelligent with her own career and not dependent on someone to support her. If this person can be found, I can offer a reward of lifetime devotion, long, slow kisses that last for days, midnight bubble baths and massages, a partner that loves to cook and doesn't mind sharing in the household chores, someone to wash your back, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. If you think you may have found my smile, please e-mail me as I really need it to be myself. Thanks.
If your favorite Muppet is Miss Piggy, there is a good chance that we just won't get along. Don't take that the wrong way; she just really annoys me. I guess the woman that I am looking for is somewhere between a thrill-seeker and a couch potato. She isn't afraid to scale a rock face with me, won't get aggravated when I lead us 200 miles in the wrong direction, and will laugh when I say something unintentionally stupid. There was a time when I used to draw and paint. Somehow I fell out of it so it would be great to meet someone who does enjoy those things to help me get back into it. At the end of the day, I am just hoping to meet a girl who can discuss the world around her, is looking for more than just a date, and will cuddle on the couch and laugh at old Dave Chappelle videos with me. Will you be my partner in crime? If the answer is yes than send me an email and let's get lost together.
I would hate to bore you by telling you how wonderful I am by attaching to my name a bunch of flattering adjectives. I am sure that you have already found this about two hundred times in all the other profiles. I believe that words are cheap, but actions speak much louder, so why bother? So, why not start with a bad stuff - I am impulsive and restless at times, I can't kill a fly, I cried twice like a girl when I watched "Notebook," I cuss too often, and stay up way too late way too often. There is something about the nighttime that I find magic, if you will, which keeps me up working or hanging out aimlessly. Can you relate? I have little patience for flakes and fake people - those who smile while being angry on the inside, as I never know what they keep up their sleeve. How about you? What annoyed you today? And what made you weak in your knees from joy and pleasure?
You are curious about the world around you. You can take a joke and are not easily offended. You believe that sarcasm is a spice of life. You can spell, and are generally happy. The rest is negotiable
I don't think it matters what we do on a first date, and I am a big fan of simplicity, so a bottle of wine dessert would be just fine."
Would you just listen and please don't say a word, just yet,
I'd like you to think back to the very first time we met,
How you felt around me? The memories we shared,
And just remember that once upon a time, you really cared.
Now think about how we parted, and how much I cried,
But please don't speak, remember that I never ever lied,
That I told you the honest truth about why we were to split,
But now I'd like you to know that my heart broke bit by bit.
The pain was deep, unbearable and painful, for so many years,
I'll never forget all the sadness, all the uncontrollable tears,
Slowly I am rebuilding my life, I am content with what I've got,
And although it is hard I am beginning to forget what I have not.
You were a special part of my life that I will never forget,
A part of my life that broke my heart, but that I don't regret,
You gave me some happy memories that I'll keep in my heart,
Although sometimes I wish that you and I didn't have to part.
You were my first love and my true love, that will always be so,
After all of the heartache, sadness and never ending pain, I know,
You and I had something special and that will never change,
Because I love you and loving someone else will always seem strange.
Would you just listen and please don't say a word, not ever,
I'd like you to remember that once upon a time, we said forever,
That I had hopes and dreams, that I was the one who threw them away,
And this is something I will always regret until my dying day.