My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Jen2581, Woman, 42 |
Location | Nottingham, England, UK |
Looking for a | Man, aged 39 - 45, Asian/White/Latino... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Polite notice: I would like to date someone who like me HAS children. No offence intended!
That said - I'm patiently waiting to meet someone comfortable in their own skin who wants good times and banter along the way. Let's live, love and laugh. This is it... This is our life - it's not a dress rehearsal!
Likes: Music - R&B & 2Step Garage but generally I love all sorts, Def Jam Poetry, Dancing, Walking, Making jewellery, Hot sunny days, Cooking/baking, Socialising and Sunday morning cuddles... Uuum!, down-to-earth attitudes, kind heartedness, character and integrity.
Dislikes: Fibbers - I can smell a lie like a f**t in a lift by the way.:-) It's not the lie that bothers me - it's the insult to my intelligence that is most offensive. Spiders, Dark Chocolate creepy crawlies and crudeness. People who waste my time. If your intent does not match mine please do not send me messages. Thank you!
Oh by the way I am a Christian. This basically means that I have accepted God's gift of salvation - By doing this I believe that my life has changed and that it is now characterized by love for others and obedience to God's Word.
If you think this is crazy - I respect that (Shrug!). But I do not want to spend one moment justifying my choice, just as I would not expect any atheist to justify theirs to me. Belief is a personal CHOICE so don't freak out and be deterred I am not a harassing "bible basher!" I just have a a personal relationship with GOD through prayer. I try to treat everyone as I would like to be treated and to do my best not to "wilfully" sin- that's it! Xxx
I am looking for
Honesty and accountability. Accepting responsibility for ourselves. Being able to admit when we are wrong. Open communication, being able to express our feelings and opinions knowing it is ok to disagree. Saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Being willing to find solutions to disagreements one's that are agreeable to us both. Acknowledging both of our needs and wants. Making decisions together- financial decisions together, sharing dating expenses. Accepting both partners need to hold a job. Doing things for each other and going places that we both like. Giving as much as we receive. Find ways to appreciate each other regularly. Paying attention to and valuing each other. Respecting each other. Trusting and supporting each other. Wanting the best for each other. Faithfulness. Respecting boundaries and privacy whilst still having some independence and privacy for ourselves. No jealously or possessiveness. Offering encouragement. Being ok with each other having different friends. Listening to each other non-judgmentally. Being empathetic and understanding. Being physically affectionate- doing things we both like!