My ethnicity is | Black/Pacific Islander/Other |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Jay78420, Man, 45 |
Location | Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 30 - 40, White/Other (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black/Pacific Islander/Other |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm an educated professional brotha that has roots in the hood but my head in a book. I can speak with anyone about anything. I'm level headed down to earth - practical type of person (not much grey area with me). I love culture an watch tv but I'm still a book worm an live to learn new concepts an ideas. I am very good at communicating my thoughts and emotions without name calling or degrading anyone. The truth last longer than me calling you something out of anger. I won't spend time on petty arguments that can easily be solved. I like good times an most of all a quiet relationship an home if you catch my drift.. That we can continue to build good memories an grow.
I am a giver at heart and enjoy being depended on. I've learned that certain things in life are not always about me an that I need to take a stepback an view life from the other person perspective. A big part of being a leader is being able to listen without judgment. Its allowed me too be a better person in the process. I love confident women also. I’m not flashy person, but I want my woman to be free to act, say an wear what she wants when she wants to wear it.
I spoil my women with affection and passion. A sexual relationship with me is a celebration of you. Even when it's about me its really always about you. I'm not jealous or insecure person. I chose u so I trust you, if I don't I don't trust myself an the chemistry we've built. I love hard cause I'm very passionate an look forward too intamacy so my confidence in you is very high when we apart.
I am looking for
Please be yourself.. I find beauty in the ordinary. Not looking for a supermodel cause that’s a bs way to consider a woman. Imperfection is sexy an always has been cause I think the standard of beauty is BS. Anything else is a hamster wheel of insecurity an depression. I make my women feel like she is the most beautiful women in the world. Im very big on kissing, cuddling eye contact an showing affection whenever so you'll have to be ok with that. I love to cook (2 years chef school) so I could be making you dinner or rubbing your feet. All I ask is that you make me feel just a comfortable when I'm on your mind... I like a women that (like myself) does things cause she wants too not cause I ask her too.
P. S. I have a thing for pretty feet, Summertime open toed shoes (very sexy) You dont have to like your feet just take care of them. Cause I will...