My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'3" (191 cm) |
Status | Widowed |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | JUSJES, Man, 60 |
Location | Birmingham, Alabama, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 39 - 45, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'3" (191 cm) |
Status | Widowed |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Greetings! I was once a member of this site, but due to all the lies, games and the type of ladies I was attracting, I decided to cancel my subscription some time back. Maybe there was confusion within my profile, or I just did not make myself clear. So I am re-writing my profile to make sure it is understood clearly. First let me say,... I am not lonely, desperate, horny or stupid! I am sincere and honest in my attempts to meet a nice lady, who is as sincere and honest as I am. I am a good man who is godly, a gentleman who is gentle, an educated man who realize there is much to learn, a simple man who loves adventure. I know how to treat a lady/woman, or so I believe,... Understanding that each one is unique and different, but all share the common desire to be treated with respect, compassion and love. Make no mistake, I am not here to play some twisted game, conceived in the mind of some twisted individual. The most valuable commodity I possess is my time! It is not to be wasted, for once it is spent, it can never be replaced, so do not waste mine!! Life is special, filled with special moments, to be shared with that special someone. Let me now introduce myself. I am 6'3"tall, 256lbs, I spend quality time at the gym, for I believe one should aspire to be and stay in the best shape possible, spirit, soul, and body. I am an historian, an aspiring artist, photographer, genealogist, learning the guitar and spanish, with a few other constructive skills. I live in my own home, and enjoy working in the yard. I have no children, no drama, no drugs, and no games. I was married but my wife died in an accident in 1991. I am attracted to slim, slender, pettie ladies, I am not attracted to big butts nor big breast, if you feel you have to display photos revealing your breast and butt, leads me to believe that you are in search of a sex partner, as oppose to a life partner. For I am not some school boy who gets all excited viewing a half naked woman. I seek a lady with class and a soul of gold. I believe friendship is the foundation upon which all else is built, so that is the starting point,... Friends. I love the beach and the solace I find there. I do not sweat the small stuff, and believe that anything that would disrupt my joy, happiness and peace of mind,... All small stuff. It is sad but true, that our society has become so fearful, fragmented, anti-social, materialistic and very permissive, where self respect has fallen into an abyss and taken honesty with it. Know this,... If it is money/funds you seek, I am not your man, so pass me by, if you lie about where you live, just pass me by, if you are from ghana(west africa) pass me by. If you are sincere about meeting a soulmate/partner/friend, please do not ask me to sit daily on my phone and send text after text, for I am an adult, who believes in adult communication,.... It is call talking. I understand there are some crazy nuts out there, and you ladies should be careful, so I will e-mail a few times, but it all should lead to speaking with one another or meeting. I believe that nothing ventured, then nothing gained. What we sow we shall reap, if you sow nothing, then you shall reap nothing. I apologize for such a lengthy profile, but I wanted to make sure I was/am understood, thank you for your indulgence and patience.
I am looking for
A beautiful intelligent lady who is serious about meeting someone and not just into flirting. I seek a partner and not a rival, someone who realize that time wasted is time lost. Someone who is interested in developing a relationship, understanding friends before anything. Someone who is willing to spend a little time at the gym, before searching for jim! Outer beauty is only complimented by inner beauty. I am interested in a slim / slender / athletic lady, who is not self serving, nor insecure. I have found that divorce in the u. S. A./and other parts of the world is above 86%. This means that 86+ out of 100 marriages fail,..... Why?- I wonder if people realize that it take work to make a relationship work, or even know what they want? The past is written, the future is not. Let us write our own new story,... Together, and not become a life time member of this site, or someone who is satisfied with a ton of flirts. I left this site for some time, and now I thought I would give it one last try, thank you for reading my lengthy profile, namaste!!!