My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'1" or below |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Irishblood, Woman, 39 |
Location | Raleigh, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 45, Black/Mixed/Native American (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'1" or below |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Currently in Raleigh, NC however I dont have internet right now so if you contact me and it takes a while to hear back from me, it's not my fault haha :)
I'm going to sound like a brat for even adding this, but I'm 100% real when I say that I'm tired of men communicating to me when they obviously have NOT READ my profile... If you refuse to take time to read something that I've taken time to write, then move on to someone else because I expect a little more than just a glance at my picture from a man. Moving on.
Please don't get me wrong guys - I'm not a brat all the time, I just get to the point where I just get the same reaction from men (as I'msure you all get the same reactions from women) and everyone has their limits. I'm a GOOD woman with true love to give... Whether you wanna stick around and try me out is on you. No hard feelings, no sour words exchanged.
I laugh alot & probably annoy some people around me when I do.:) My biggest turn on is being able to goof around with my man like we're crazy lil kids and then kiss him... And then take it into the bedroom. Hahah *wink* -- I went to college to work with animals so if you don't like animals I'm sorry I'm going to have to be mean to you by thinking a little less of ya and more than likely tell you to keep moving.
I also have to point out before I lose the focus of anyone not wanting to read everything --I'm a BIG GIRL... As in I WEIGH FAR TOO MUCH! I'm quite frankly what you guys would call "TOO DAMN FAT".. Don't give me the tired "well, you look good in your pics..." of course I do, do you think any woman (of any size) is going to put up an unflattering picture of herself?? Just because my profile picture doesnt show a gigantic head, doesnt mean I'm slim... But I'm working on fixing that up. A lot of you have confused me being overwieght with me being a woman who doesnt think I deserve self-respect... Too bad for you. I know I deserve respect and I also demand it. So if you think I'm a push over, well that's too bad for you. I'm conscious of the benefits of working out and realizing that even if it tastes good at the time lol it's usually not worth it later. I've had no problem dismissing men completely out of my life who do 1 of 2 things to me -- 1) either abuse me physically or emotionally and 2) disrespect my animals or animals in general. I'm still young, but I am an old soul who knows what I want out of life and realizes which people I want to bring in. I'm 26 years old and like to do my own unique thing. I tend to give more than I get but I know there is someone who can appreciate the sweet small things and when I find him he will be a lucky lil man!:) I'm open about what I'm feeling, I try my hardest to love like I've never been hurt, and am into creativity and really listening to people and learning from them. I'm the best of both worlds in many ways. So yeah, I'm pretty perfect..:) Just kidding. Get to know me -- you'll love it! Hahah.
I am looking for
Someone who knows himself. Has goals, is going after them and is realistic about his future. I can't tell you how many guys tell me how they are about to do big things and all they do is get drunk and play video games all day every day... Thats not sexy. Something that -is- sexy is a man who can have a good time doing absolutely anything with me, whether it's a planned trip or being silly in a retail store. Be a total nerd around me, goofing and cracking funny jokes and my entirety is yours. It's all about just enjoying being around one another. I want a guy who can protect me willingly like a headstrong man would, but who knows how to turn on the big sweetheart side of himself when he's around me. Men who have children already with other women -- let's just say that if you are in that situation and you're trying to be with me in a relationship, make sure that you really truely are not in love with the mother of your children anymore and that you are emotionally capable of loving me. Too often men realize that relationship is over and they just want to jump into another one and let's be real: doing that is not fair to me, yourself, that woman, nor your children. You must respect (if not love them as much as I do) animals because animals are the #1 things that affect me. It sickens me that I have to point it out, but I can not stress how important honesty is to me. Everyone says it, everyone says that they are honest, so why do so many continue to deceive each other? It makes no sense to me. I never hold anything back (while still considering someone's feelings) and if you have any questions about me, you can rest assure that you will get the honest truth in my answers. I ask no man to be perfect, I only ask them to be truthful with themselves and myself. On a side note, a man who is creative in some way and can laugh (while making me laugh) are a plus for me.:)
(Many songs on Deftones album "white Pony" get me in the mood... Jut saying...)