My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'5" (165 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Nickname | InYourEar, Woman, 43 |
Location | Tuscaloosa, Alabama, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 34 - 45, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'5" (165 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
How would you describe yourself?
I've been career-oriented for most of my life, but I currently value my family time more than anything, although I do enjoy my jobs. I'd never make a living doing something that's not fun because I live to enjoy life! This means not only do I take pleasure in the smallest things, but I also love to laugh and I'm quite playful.
When it comes to relationships, I'm quite old fashioned. I believe in the man being the head of the household. My views on love are quite different from most. I'd love to tell you about them if you're interested.
I have one child, who is pressuring me to have at least one more. However, I am in NO RUSH! But since I've been single for 8 years (long story), I figured I MIGHT need to at least move in the direction of considering a serious relationship. So, here I am.
The bullet points:
I laugh..... A lot! I think it's healthy, and if there's humor to be found in a situation, I find it!
I'm VERY family oriented. I have a large family, and we do things together regularly (dinners, trips, church, parties, etc.).
I DON'T do drama. If your ex has a problem with me, I WILL give her a reason to completely HATE me. LOL All that involves is treating you GREAT!
I live a very slow life during the week and a very fast-paced life on the weekends. However, as the saying goes, you make time for what's important to you. So, when I have someone special, some of that will include him and some will be less of a priority.
I don't like shopping too much, but I WILL spend on necessities.... Like trips and vacations. Yes, they are necessary. Everybody needs a break sometimes.
Other than that, you have to ask. I'm not really good at talking about myself. Can't you tell? LOL
I am looking for
I want someone with whom I can enjoy life. One who can laugh with me and travel but who also knows the value in spending time apart. If he can love me and my daughter and enjoy being with us, and even if we're a little upset with each other not feel the need to separate, but also hit the gym with the fellas and enjoy a game of basketball knowing he'll either have a cheerleader in the stands or a woman ready to be close to him when he gets home..... That's MY kinda guy!