My ethnicity is | Black/Latino/Mixed/Native American... |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Heartfelt79, Woman, 49 |
Location | Columbus, Ohio, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 38 - 44, Asian/Black/White... |
My ethnicity is | Black/Latino/Mixed/Native American... |
Height | 5'4" (163 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Ok, I see my short version of "who am I" was not successful as much as when I had something more to say so, I will try giving a brief description of who I am. As I said I will try to keep it brief.
After reviewing my own profile, it seem as if I'm trying to get a job or writing a book instead of a date lol. I am new to this and open to fresh ideas.
I will say that though I am not a self- righteous, hypocrite, nor one that some people quote on qoute say "think they are God" I am however, a believer in Jesus Christ who is my Lord and savior whom I love and commit my lifetime and life to. I do read my bible and pray and go to service at my non-denomination church every sunday when I am able. I am not perfect nor do I put on a show to be. All I ask is for Jesus to be ruler and guide of my heart, body, mind and of my overall life (inside and outside) and that I am sensitive to the leading of the holy spirit. I am not here on this site nor in this world to be fake. I am real and when I speak and what I do it comes from my heart.
I have 4 beautiful adult children and three grandchildren whom I love dearly, Two of which are home.
I am an entrepreneur with gifted creativity
Presently I am in college studying interior design with plans to expand in remodeling and designing homes, offices/proffessional buildings along with my current skills of designing and building furniture.
Negativity is not my strong point so, I avoid people places and any situation that is of a negative influence
A lot of my strong points come from watching and learning throughout my life and instead of judging, I learn from my mistakes and that of others and with God's help strive to do better or to overcome
Enjoying the life that Jesus has freely given to me is a must, because life is to short to waist or give away without taking consideration of value.
I am a neat freak, I enjoy cleaning, cooking and Laundry and designing and decorating my home ( I am somewhat of a handyman :) women).
I am not into being overbearing nor control issues and would prefer not dealing with anyone who is controlling, abusive in any way. I choose to stay drama free.
My work ethics: I am a hard worker and a timely person; pronto. However, due to some health issues at the present moment I am on relief, and this is one of my reasons for going back to college so, I can fulfill my goal in something I love doing and will be able to do. I run my own business so, this financially meet my needs.
I am not one for expensive things even if I was the wealthiest women in the world; budgeting, investing and saving is one of my strong suites.
I do believe in keeping appearance top notch, without the (everything have to be $$$) just to look good
Yes, I do have a romantic side to me, The preparing dinner with candlelight and smooth jazz or something classy soft and mellow, or cuddling up with a glass of wine to the fireplace or just a good movie, being thoughtful with a thinking of you card or a just because gift. Yes, I believe a good man or my man deserve effection and drowning in much love and appreciation also.
Even though I am mature, intelligent and serious, I am down to earth, can be silly at times, and light hearted.
I have had a bad experience with ones who smoke and are alcoholics therefore, I do not have any plans on dating anyone with such habits. Thank you.
Disloyalty, dishonesty, unfaithfulness, mistrust, stalkerish, low self-esteem, and a lot of hangups/ baggage undealt with is not my make up and I have had my fair share in relationships to individuals with such issues, so, I am looking for a fresh start with a man who non of these personalities or traits fit. Thank you.
Doing my best to give 100% in relationships and in all I do or commit myself to is all I know, and since deciding after over a three year break of relationship, I am ready to get back in the dating arena, I am set firm on only dating a man who feels the same about giving and receiving. If you are a man who is sincerely on here because you are tired of giving all you have in relationships and getting nothing in return and fit the discription of what I am looking for and believe I am or may be what you are looking for and you desire a women that is a Lady and carries herself as such with class and respect and if you are tired of being lied to or not appreciated for being a darn good man then I believe and hope I am your lady. I do not have problems with infidelity or hangups and baggage. Life is truly too short and I would love to find someone whom I could grow old with and have the chance to experience real true untanted passionate love and happiness with one I can be proud to say " He is mine"
I am looking for
A man who #1. Believe in Jesus and has made him Lord of his life
A good man.
WhatI'mlooking for in a man as a good man
● one who respects and value those in his life
● one who is loyal, trustworthy and faithful in all
● He know how to enjoy life and those in his life
● one who does not have dependencies, such as alcohol abuse nor drugs nor smoking. His only dependency is valuing his relationship with Jesus first and those placed in his life and living his life in fullness with love and respect for himself and others.
● one that is not judgmental, but at the same time know how to learn from mistakes or any negative outcomes
●He must be confident and have emaculant self-esteem, and yet gentle at heart, understanding, patient, not self-endulged and consumed.
● strong minded and firm rooted and grounded. Can make precise and clear decisions on his own ( not a crowd follower). His own MAN.
● yes, I would like for him to be or desire to be goal oriented and pursuer and a persevere.
● I am not one for fame, wealthy or rich, but I have had my fair share of relationships with ones who had nothing and wanted nothing. Basically saying I brought everything to the table and received nothing in return. Now I just desire a relationship to a man who can bring something to the table or working on it already due to a tragic incident or set back he may have experienced such as divorce or whatever. I can understand life set backs and those who don't allow those set backs to keep them down.
● He must have pride and dignity
● He must care about his overall complete appearance ( inside and out).. The outside can look real good but the inside may be a complete mess.
● You may be like "what the!" When I say this, but I have never met a man yet that have his own house, a car and a job, true!. Maybe it's the city I live in! Who knows. I have come to realize after thinking I could help that person get on their feet and do better in their life, in the process getting involved, that #1. You are already hurting yourself if you think this way especially if there is no sign the person has morals and respect, value or pride or even motivation and determination for themself from jump street. I now know being a Christian does not mean being unwise about people I choose to let in your life and thinking, well, they can change, is not what make us a good christian or show we are not judging them but, yet some can take that as a sign of weakness and prey upon and take advantage on what goodness and good intentions is inside you
●He have to choose to be also my friend first and always. One I can watch sports with, sometimes play baskeball and other sports with from time to time. We can talk about everything with one another.
● one who has good communication skills
●He must be good with children
●He must have a positive attitude and Outlook.
● one who believe in prayer and crack open his bible sometime or all the time
● He is mature, laid back, but at the same time a go getter.
●He must be gentle, one who is not known for anger management issues.
● If his mom is alive or not, he must be known for loving, respecting and showing honor to his mother and to his father or those who cared for him.
● I thought people's past shouldn't dictate the person they are in the present, and people shouldn't be judged by their past, but they should be allowed that second chance in life, well, I now know that is not the case with everyone and I am desiring to date man with no criminal background such as problem with the law that has anything to do with domestic violence of any sort or anything equivalent to. Thank you