My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Gatorgirl78, Woman, 45 |
Location | Ashford, Alabama, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 40, Black/Pacific Islander/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am a very outspoken woman. I bring a lot of good things to the table and sometimes not so good. I am a good listener and usually give good, sound advice. I do not live by any double-standard and would like someone a lot like myself in that manner. I am 35 years old and I live in Ashford, Al. I have two great kids, biracial and white, and would give my all to and for them. I am very humble. I am fine in a pair of Levi jeans and a WalMart t-shirt. I don't need expensive things to make me happy. Matter-of-fact, I usually prefer to do things that don't require money like the park, fishing, or just chilling etc... I am too old to act like a childish high-school girl and too young to not live my life. I just want to share my time with someone who can carry an intelligent conversation and someone who can be loyal. Is that wanting too much? Seems Monogamy is something of the past. I am a little old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I sincerely believe that people should be faithful in relationships. Don't get me wrong, to each his own, but IMO, people who like to dabble in everything should really remain single. This way no one gets hurt and there is no drama. I also do not like "mind-rapers". I find it truly sad that a person knowingly deceives another for personal satisfaction and gain. Just be real and be who you are. Lots of people talk a good game but I'm more interested in a man that can walk the walk, not just talk the talk.
I am looking for
Honesty, loyalty, understanding, compassion, monogamy, and most of all, love.
My ideal man: loves God, loves kids, Loves himself, and most of all, truly loves me.
I don't want a jerk, but I don't want a doormat either.
I want a man who knows how to balance being the big strong man along with the sensitive sweet man. If more guys could get that balance right, they would have a lot more success with women.
Someone who wants to give attention and affection, not just receive it.
I have children and get along with their father, so NO baby mama drama PLEASE!!!
Most of all, I want a man who understands and comprehends that a relationship is always a work in progress. It will never be perfection. That is impossible. But constant compromise and equal give and take are a must.
Also, a man needs to be able to communicate his feelings to me. I have no trouble with expressing my feelings and WILL do so. A man must understand that expression is not arguing. It is the only way a relationship will survive.
Someone who understands that sex doe not equal love, it is a perk of being in love.
NO VANITY. I have a zero tolerance for men who spend more time in the mirror than most women I know and brag on their looks all the time.